The most important question each of us needs to answer is, "What are you living for? What is the purpose of your life?"
And this brings us to the question, "What's really important in your life?" From this viewpoint most quarrels are over trivial matters.
From a mature, eternal perspective, the quarrels of many adults are not that far from the quarrels of two young children over a small toy.
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