95% of Machlot can be solved by a four step process
1) Original dispute is caused by lack of Humbleness or Arrogance. Arrogance is caused by one of three things. a) Wealth b) Smartness c) good looks. All three of these things are given by G-d so we have nothing to be arrogant about. To keep us humble G-d gives us Teffilin to remember where smartness comes from (worn on the head), The Talit to wrap around the body to remember where our body comes from and the Mezuah to put on the door to remember if you have a door (wealth) it is because G-d gives it to you.
2) If the dispute arises, one must be willing to talk to the other side. Dathian and Abiram said they would not go up to talk (and their words came true--they did not go up they went down into the pit). If you can't talk about the dispute it can't be resolved. The difference between the disputes that Hillel and Shami had is that they wanted to resolve the dispute. Korach just wanted to Kick Aaron out.
3) Listen to the other side. Creative listening. Hillel and Shami would listen to the other position and argue each other's position to take the personality out of it. When you argue the other person's position, you get it and understand it. 4) Compromise. If you take the personality out of the argument, there is the ability to compromise. If you won't talk about it how can there be compromise. No one benefits from proof that your position is better and we learned even when G-d told the people that Moses was right and Korach was wrong, the people were not convinced. They said the Moses was a murderer.
4a) Resolve by Both parties coming up with a solution. In our example, Aaren's staff was put in the middle so there was not advantage to getting a better reception on either side and the people saw that Aaron's staff was chosen. This allowed the erring party to save face and admit the other's position had merit and a solution was reached.
Moshe says to Korach, "It is too much for you (RAV), you sons of Levi" (Bamidbar 16:7). The Talmud in Sota 13 states, "With the word RAV (too much), Moshe rebuked Korach and the other Levites. Therefore, with the word RAV (too much), G-D rebuked Moshe that he would not enter Eretz Yisrael" (Devarim 3:26). Rashi explains that Moshe was held accountable for the improper way he spoke to Korach and the other Levites.
In other words, G-D ignored Moshe's prayers, and his hundreds of pleas to enter the Holy Land, because of the harsh way Moshe spoke to Korach. We must try to understand what Moshe did wrong in the way he rebuked Korach. What did Moshe do that caused G-D to refuse him entry to the Holy Land with the same word RAV (too much) that Moshe used to rebuke Korach?
The Midrash says that Moshe's pleas to enter Eretz Yisrael was motivated by his great desire for spiritual perfection. The Mitzva of living in Eretz Yisrael is equal to all the Mitzvot of the Torah (Sifri Parashat Re'eh). Thus, Moshe pleaded with G-D to grant him this merit of dwelling in the Holy Land.
Moshe sought spiritual perfection, which can only be attained by living in the Holy Land. G-D told him RAV (too much) perfection for you. G-D used the same word RAV that Moshe used when Korach and the other Levites approached him to attain the Kedusha of KEHUNAH.
In a certain way, Moshe was ignoring and dismissing the Levites' appeal for spiritual perfection. G-D held him accountable for this. Consequently, when Moshe's plea to enter the Holy Land was denied, G-D used the same terminology to Moshe that Moshe had used to Korach and the other Levites. MIDDA KINEGGED MIDDA, G-D responds to our behavior with measure for measure. This means that the way we treat and behave with others is the same way that G-d treats and behaves with us.
The lesson is that we must be extremely polite, respectful, extra sensitive, and courteous, when giving rebuke to our fellow Jew.
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In the past month, the leaders of the Reform and Conservative movements in America have taken steps that change the basic contours of their movements.
These steps portend disaster for them and for their members.
Over the past two decades, the major disputes among and within American Jewish groups have revolved around two main issues. First, they faced the challenge of skyrocketing intermarriage and assimilation rates among non-Orthodox Jews and the concomitant dwindling of membership rates in non-Orthodox religious institutions.
Second, major American Jewish groups have had to deal with the challenge of Jewish anti-Israel groups. Some of them, like Jewish Voice for Peace, exist to serve as fig leaves for antisemites. Some, like J Street, were formed to legitimize anti-Zionism among American Jews and push mainstream Jewish groups away from their traditional support for Israel.
Over the past few weeks, the leaders of the Reform and Conservative movements have chosen to deal with these challenges by delivering their flagship institutions – and through them, their movements – into the hands of Jewish antisemites. That is, they have placed their movements on the fast track to self-destruction.
On May 14, Hebrew Union College in Los Angeles held its annual graduation ceremony. HUC, with its campuses throughout the US and Jerusalem, is the flagship institution of the Reform movement. HUC ordains Reform rabbis, cantors and professionals. Its curriculum and priorities determine the direction of the entire movement.
This year, HUC's leadership conferred an honorary degree on novelist Michael Chabon and asked him to deliver the annual commencement address.
HUC's decision to honor Chabon was shocking in and of itself. Chabon is an outspoken hater of Israel and Israeli Jews. His books Olives and Ash: Writers Confront the Occupation, and The Yiddish Policeman's Union are, each in their way, major assaults on Israel's very right to exist, not to mention on the inherent morality of its existence.
So by inviting Chabon to speak, HUC wasn't merely inviting a "controversial" speaker – it was inviting a speaker who openly hates Israel.
At the commencement, while he laced his address with Israel hatred – and a particularly vicious abhorrence for Jews who live beyond the 1949 armistice lines – Chabon did not focus his remarks on the Jewish state.
Most of his speech was a diatribe against Judaism. Chabon began his speech with an assault on endogamous marriages. When a Jew marries a Jew, he explained, they create "a ghetto of two."
The Jewish marriage ceremony is hateful because "it draws a circle around the married couple, inscribes them – and any eventual children who come along – within a figurative wall of tradition, custom, shared history, and a common inheritance of chromosomes and culture."
In contrast, intermarriage "is the source of all human greatness."
Judaism is hateful in Chabon's views because it is all about drawing lines, distinctions and boundaries. And he thinks boundaries and lines – up to and including the separation of the heavens from the earth – are evil.
Chabon took his audience on his journey from Jew to anti-Jew and explained that it would be no tragedy at all if Judaism would disappear altogether.
In his words, "On the day that the last Jewish couple dies, after watching their children marry Hindus, Lutherans, atheists, Sunnis, Buddhists, the fault for that extinction will lie squarely with Judaism itself – and not because Judaism failed to enforce its teachings against intermarriage but because it was necessary… to have such teachings in the first place. Any religion that relies on compulsory endogamy to survive has, in my view, ceased to make the case for its continued validity in the everyday lives of human beings."
The pinnacle of Chabon's anti-Jewish screed to newly ordained Reform rabbis revolved around his revulsion at the Passover Seder. Insisting that the whole story of the Children of Israel's enslavement in Egypt and subsequent liberation was a lie ("It seems pretty clear that we just made the whole damn thing up"), he explains that God is immoral because he hardened Pharaoh's heart, "ensuring the slaughter of thousands of innocent Egyptian boys."
And of course, Israel is the evil, modern equivalent of Pharaoh's Egypt.
Chabon then exhorted the new Reform religious leaders that their job is to transform Judaism into Chabon's image. They must essentially completely reject its teachings. They must reject Israel. They must transform Judaism into something indistinguishable from the radical leftist mélange that inhabits Chabon's hometown of Berkeley, California.
When a few Jewish writers condemned the HUC for inviting Chabon, the college's interim president Rabbi David Ellenson and the dean of its Los Angeles campus Joshua Holo published an article where they did more than just defend having provided an antisemite with their most prestigious platform in the name of open discourse and diversity – they defended Chabon's positions.
In their words, "Chabon… articulated deeply Jewish and Zionist commitments (not merely abstract or literary in nature, but specifically religious, communal and even tribal)."
If there was ever a better articulation of "white is black and black is white," it's hard to think of one.
Chabon articulated a deep desire to destroy Judaism and Zionism and replace them both with anti-Judaism and anti-Zionism, in the name of destroying the tribe, community and religion through intermarriage.
By defending Chabon's message, and pretending it was the opposite of what it was, Ellenson and Holo adopted it as HUC's message.
Chabon's message is now the position of the Reform Movement.
This brings us to the Conservative movement.
Last week, the radical group IfNotNow held a workshop in Boston for young activists who will work this summer as counselors at Jewish summer camps affiliated with Reform and Conservative Judaism. Several of the participants will work as counselors at the Conservative movement's Camp Ramah.
Camp Ramah, whose eight-week session costs nearly $10,000 per camper, is one of the most important institutions in the Conservative movement. With nine camps throughout the United States, 9,000 campers a year and some 200,000 alumni, Camp Ramah has played an outsized role in engendering and maintaining Jewish identity, Zionism and communal attachment and commitment among young American Jews.
Aside from sports, drama and other standard summer- camp fare, campers at Ramah have daily Hebrew classes and Torah classes. The camps are kosher and keep Shabbat. Israel and Zionism have always played central roles as well in Ramah's daily routine.
According to the JTA write-up, IfNotNow's workshop was the brainchild of a Camp Ramah alumna. Its goal is to bring the group's ideology into Camp Ramah.
IfNotNow met with Ramah Director Rabbi Mitch Cohen in March. Several workshop participants have been hired by Ramah.
The very fact that IfNotNow members have been hired by Ramah means that the camp – and through it, the Conservative movement – has embraced Israel hatred, and indeed, hatred of Judaism, as a legitimate position.
IfNotNow is a spin-off of J Street. It was formed during Operation Protective Edge in 2014. Its members organized violent protests outside the offices of major Jewish groups in New York and Boston demanding that they end their support for Israel and support Hamas terrorists.
IfNotNow members said kaddish for Hamas terrorists.
The group has placed the cessation of US support for Israel among its top goals.
After Protective Edge, the group expanded its writ from disseminating hatred for the world's biggest Jewish community to more generic hatred of all things Jewish.
In 2016, for instance, IfNotNow began presiding over Passover "Seders."
In an extraordinary expression of contempt for the Jewish religion, the group's "Seders" are a reification of Chabon's antisemitic aspirations. Israelites are replaced with the Palestinians. Pharaoh is Israel.
In 2016, the group stepped into the national spotlight when one of its founders, Simone Zimmerman, was appointed to serve as Democratic primary candidate Senator Bernie Sanders' coordinator for Jewish outreach.
Zimmerman's appointment was short-lived. Within two days, senior Jewish officials decried her appointment, once her Facebook posts filled with vitriol and hatred for Israel and Prime Minister Binyamin Netanyahu (and Hillary Clinton) were exposed in the press.
Over the past few months, stories have trickled out about IfNotNow's plan to bring its hatred for Israel and Judaism into the mainstream. And now, the Conservative movement has opened its front door to IfNotNow's anti-Jewish Jewish professionals.
It is hard to overstate how disastrous are HUC's adoption of Chabon's antisemitism, and the Conservative movement's welcome mat for IfNotNow. Once you allow antisemites to take root in your movement, you lose the ability to exist.
You cannot justify your right to exist because the antisemites to whom you just opened your doors are proof that you don't mean it; they exist to destroy you, and you just accepted them as legitimate, even desired members.
When the leaders of the Reform and Conservative movements embraced Chabon's anti-Judaism and IfNotNow's anti-Judaism, they announced that they have not merely chosen – in the face of their existential crisis of assimilation and attrition – to self-destruct.
They have chosen to do as much damage as possible to the rest of the Jewish world as they walk themselves into extinction, secure in the warm embrace of their antisemitic ideologues.
There is one silver lining to this terrible development.
Whereas the leadership of these massive movements of non-Orthodox American Jews may have decided to embrace antisemitism and antisemites, a significant portion of their membership have no interest in joining them. Now that the Reform and Conservative movements have embraced antisemitic voices and ideals, these committed Jews are increasingly recognizing that they have no place in the movements they have belonged to all of their lives.
They are and will, in ever increasing numbers, continue to look for a new way to express and live Jewish lives.
In an interview with Makor Rishon last week, Deputy Minister Michael Oren presented a proposal to bring ten thousand non-Orthodox American Jews to Israel on aliya every year. Oren recommends that Israel provide financial and other incentives to young non-Orthodox Jews to come to Israel. Aliya, he explains, is the surest way to prevent intermarriage and assimilation. "Someone who makes aliya settles here, marries and starts a family, [and] will most likely have Jewish kids."
Oren noted that the Reform and Conservative movements "set a goal to preserve the Jewish people, number- wise and value-wise, in light of the challenge of the modern world," a goal they are failing to meet.
Now that these movements have abandoned this goal in favor of the morass of "miscegenation" and a reinvention of Judaism as the anti-Judaism Chabon upholds and IfNotNow embraces, it is Israel's duty to take it on.
There are a number of explanations for the Reform and Conservative movements' decision to destroy themselves by embracing antisemitic Jews and their messages of hatred. But understanding their decision is not the most pressing challenge that Israel and the non-Orthodox Jews of America, who do not accept this decision, face. The most urgent order of business is to minimize the damage they can cause Israel and maximize the number of American Jews who will not go down with them.
He created him [Adam] in the image of God (Genesis 1:27).
Since God is not corporeal, the term "image of God" obviously refers to humanity's capacity for Godliness, i.e. to share in the Divine attributes of rational thinking, spirituality, sanctity, creativity - attributes that distinguish us from all other living things.
The serpent seduced Adam and Eve to eat of the forbidden Tree of Knowledge by convincing them that doing so would enable them to become God-like (ibid. 3:5). Why did they succumb to this argument, since they already knew that they were created betzelem Elokim, with the capacity to be God-like? Today, sadly, we have found one answer.
Misguided proponents of drugs claimed that certain drugs would create new senses of perception, and that users would thereby be able to perceive the "real truth" of the universe. As a result, millions of people, many of them young people with minds still in the delicate formative stage, have had their brains poisoned and their thinking distorted.
The tragic mistake of the Sixties bears great resemblance to the first sin. God bestowed humanity with a mind fully capable of participating in Godliness in its most comprehensive sense. Artificial substitutes proffered were treacherously deceptive; far from granting new vistas of truth, the forbidden fruit was described by God as something that would bring only death and destruction. We have witnessed an analogue of Adam and Eve's sin.
We are fully endowed to be able to know the truth. All we must do is make the effort. Chemicals are not a shortcut to truth, but a sure road to destruction.
Today I shall ...
utilize my God-given mental capacities to search for truth and not be misled by false promises for instant spirituality.