Viewing peace and quarrels from the perspective of our Father, Our Mother, our King, Creator and Sustainer of the universe, changes the way we see things. The question we will ask ourselves is "What would my Father, Mother, my King, want me to say and do right now?"
Parents want their children to get along well with each other. They find it extremely distressful if their children quarrel. And there is tremendous pleasure in seeing your children interacting harmoniously. This is a metaphor for understanding peace and quarrels from the perspective of our Father, our Mother our King/Queen.