State your Goal when Impatient
Develop the habit of repeating, "This, too, will increase my patience."
How often will you say this? The more impatient you are when you start this process, the more frequently you will find this beneficial. The problem itself will be the source of the solution.
It is much easier to preach than practice. Today June 23rd was supposed to be my wedding, but the relationship ended. Of course it is true that it better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all, but of course there is still pain. If any one was planning to come and I didn't get ahold of you, just sent me a mazal tov and an introduction to someone new, but don't come. Have a beautiful shabbat. Yesterday I tried out a new feature that sends out my emails by time zone around the world, so some of you maybe getting my emails at different times than before. It is supposed to be a convenience for you my reader that you get my email at a more convenient time. Let me if it works better or worse for you. Love Yehuda Lave | 
