One tough coyote a miracle!!! And a story by George as to how white collar crime happens
The road to securities fraud is paved with good intentions.
George's morning began just like any other. I awoke at 8:00, showered, shaved, dressed in one of my $2,000 suits and with breakfast in hand I rushed out to start my day. Twenty minutes later, my Porsche convertible eased into my private parking spot directly outside the entrance of one of the largest brokerage firms of its kind. As I clutched my Alligator briefcase, I strutted through the front door.
I was startled when a frazzled and shaken broker immediately rushed me. "George, you've got to get out of here! Go home -- leave!" he yelled, pushing me back out the door. "The FBI are all over the office!"
George, you've got to get out of here! The FBI are all over the office!"
Without thinking, I spun around to leave. Then I stopped when my mantra popped into my head: I'm not doing anything wrong. And with that maxim in place, I turned back, marched past several shocked brokers and walked into the brokerage firm that I had built from scratch.
Once inside, my surreal day officially began. Dozens of federal agents were doing what one might expect when raiding a brokerage firm without warning. Snapping pictures, interviewing employees, photocopying reams of paper, and carrying out cartons upon cartons of what they deemed as evidence in what I soon learned was a securities fraud case. The 25,000 square feet office that was home to 200 employees would never be the same.
I stayed the entire day trying to be as cooperative as possible. Since I didn't do anything wrong, why cause trouble? Why leave and look guilty?
When the market closed, I hopped into my car and drove across town to watch the Los Angeles Lakers. I replayed the entire day's events over and over and became more and more certain that this would pass like every other bump in the road I encountered over the years. I would have been much calmer if it wasn't for the sheet of paper I was handed by one of the agents as I left the office.
As I sat courtside watching the game, I kept staring at this paper trying to decipher every word and understand each nuance. After analyzing it for two hours, I was convinced that although it asked for my testimony, it was clearly not regarding my conduct. The present day's events -- while troubling -- weren't about me. No, the grand jury subpoena I was holding must be related to someone else's misdeeds, not mine. Relieved, I exhaled, smiled and shoved the paper back in my suit pocket. As the horn sounded to end the game, the crowd rose to their feet. I stood for the first time all night and with 20,000 other fans cheered on my hometown team.
Not believing I was ever doing anything unlawful, I didn't have a defense attorney to call. I had to find someone who could adequately explain what needed explaining.
After finding a very good and understanding lawyer, we spent the next several weeks talking about all that had happened that led up to this investigation. I explained as forcibly as I could that I didn't do any thing wrong. Furthermore, even if anything I did do was wrong, it wasn't criminal and deserved no more than the customary, regulatory wrist slap. More importantly, others were openly engaged in the identical conduct for decades and were still in business. He had to just make this all go away.
"Do you know what the hardest part of being a white collar defense lawyer is? Convincing their client that they actually did something wrong."
There are times in a person's life when hearing a seemingly simple phrase can affect them forever. After endless back and forth dialog with my lawyer, he uttered my life-changer: "Do you know what the hardest part of being a white collar defense lawyer is?" he asked me. Without missing a beat, he answered his own question. "Convincing their client that they actually did something wrong."
End of Denial
No one -- no matter how cynical or sinister -- wakes up in the morning to "rip off old ladies." They would vomit if that were the reality. So as a defense mechanism they gradually come to believe their behavior is not only justified, but acceptable.
My unshakeable belief was that my firm was successful because it employed talented investment bankers who recommended undervalued stocks which had the potential for a big return.
In reality, we made all the money we did because the firm hired hundreds of inexperienced stockbrokers who were trained to repeatedly use high-pressure sales tactics to convince unsuspecting customers to lose millions of dollars by buying junk stocks that had little chance of increasing in value. This is the unvarnished truth -- but because I had been defending my actions (both in public and private) for years, I simply could not compute that what I was doing was wrong.
Such is the awesome power of denial. Since I was someone who always felt he was doing the right thing, treated everyone with respect, and never let success go to my head, I was sure that any behavior I engaged in wasn't wrong. But the reality of what was happening began to finally seep in. The sad and obvious truth was now abundantly clear: The subpoena was indeed about my unlawful conduct and there was no hiding from it. What I did was absolutely wrong.
For the first time, I was able to view my behavior without the veneer of rationalization -- and I felt absolutely and totally disgusted by what I had done. I decided then and there to make things right, which started by openly admitting my wrongdoing. I then agreed to give up my securities license, close the brokerage firm down, and most significantly plead guilty to securities fraud -- which I was eventually sentenced to a year in prison at a minimum security facility.
The notion that "minimum security" is likened to a "country club environment" is laughable. Yes, there are athletic fields. No, there aren't any guard towers. But you're in prison and not an upscale social setting. The expression the warden used was "prison is for punishment not as punishment." Being in prison is punishment enough, no matter what type it might be.
My year in prison was the hardest thing I ever had to go through.
It was the hardest thing I ever had to go through. The loss of freedom -- not the set meal and sleep times -- but a loss of freedom from not watching my daughter giggle when she took her first step, or comforting her through her first fever, or seeing my wife's face light up from an unexpected gift. There's no amount of fame, money, or power that's ever worth the chance of being separated from the people you care most about. There's simply nothing worse than the lack of connection to those you love.
Months after I began my sentence, I was extremely fortunate to be granted a furlough to go home for the Passover holiday. This meant I would be permitted to leave prison with the agreement to return ten days later. Of all the lessons I learned since this saga began, nothing changed me as radically as this furlough.
People sometimes hypothesize what they would do if they know they only had six months to live. While clearly not as dramatic, I had a chance to live for ten days knowing that my freedom would soon end.
Just like those supermarket contests where the winner races down the aisle for two minutes loading their cart with anything and everything, I had ten days to do all the things I longed for while incarcerated. I kissed with my daughter for hours. I had countless first dates with my wife. I even looked at the tree in my front yard differently.
Today, years later, I still don't take for granted that cuddling with my kids tomorrow is a given. For better or worse, I walk around like I'm on a furlough. I never leave the house without telling everyone that I love them. I make sure to never go to sleep with being even the slightest bit upset with anyone. While I pray for a great and healthy tomorrow, I am blessed to be someone who truly lives for today. I refuse to look back many years from now and have any regrets on how I spoke to my wife, treated my parents, or the amount of time I spent with my children. I want to reflect on my life with a deep and satisfying smile -- and not like many who'll sadly numerate all the things they should have done differently.
Crimes and Misdemeanors
Everyone's life journey encounters forks in the road. If they choose the wrong path, the next fork in the road will become that much less of a struggle. And several forks later, it's no longer a thoughtful decision between two choices, but just a mindless stroll down the wrong path.
A day usually doesn't go by without the news media highlighting someone who's accused of some type of wrong doing, either in his business or personal life. None of them simply woke up one day and started doing what's written about them in the newspaper.
Before this ever happened, he did something that was just a little wrong, something slightly unethical, a minor transgression.
And since no one views himself as a bad person, his behavior quickly becomes the norm and requires no more justification. And then a very dangerous thing happens. A person slowly moves his or her "mental bar" higher and higher as to what they feel is acceptable to do. With each small step, his behavior gets worse and worse, and gets easily rationalized because compared to their previous actions, it's only a small difference. But to an objective observer, pretty soon his actions become shockingly reprehensible.
This is why the Torah has strict guidelines regarding a man touching a woman other than his wife. Today it's giving his co-worker a meaningless peck on the cheek, tomorrow it's a peck and a hug, the next week it's innocent flirting, then it's a drink with the whole office after work, then it's just a quiet drink to unwind from the long day they shared at the office, and then... What was previously unthinkable now becomes possible. After all, the next step isn't such a big deal, is it? Suddenly he's so far removed form where he started, it's scary.
And then one day, it's all exposed.
It's extremely difficult for a person to be objective regarding his own behavior, and that makes it very hard to change one's ways.
God knows this, and that's why the Torah says that in order to make the best decisions, seek out advice and opinions from someone other than yourself -- specifically a rabbi, teacher or friend.
But this scares many people because they're simply too afraid of the answers they'll get.
Admitting that you've been doing something wrong and immoral is hard. It takes brutal honesty. But by doing so, you'll be able to prevent utter disaster from happening because you'll stop your glide towards worse and worse behavior -- and a life gone by of deep regret.
I sometimes reflect on the lifestyle I had during the height of my "success" and that of my current routine. I think about the exotic cars I drove, the private jets I flew, the monthly $15,000 credit card bills I paid with such ease -- and compare it all to sipping my morning coffee while watching my kids play with their toy trains, convincing my son to let me change his diaper, and soaking in my wife's deep content as she nurses our newborn baby.
Like a lot of people, especially in today's economy, we sometimes struggle financially. There are more days than I care to admit when I have to nervously look at our bank balance to make sure all checks will clear.
But because I can contrast my two vastly different lifestyles, I can make this statement with abundant clarity: As I sit here today, I have never been wealthier.
Meet the wiliest of all coyotes: Hit by a car at 75mph, embedded in the fender, rode for 600 miles - and SURVIVED! When a brother and sister struck a coyote at 75mph they assumed they had killed the animal and drove on. They didn't realize this was the toughest creature ever to survive a hit-and-run. Eight hours, two fuel stops, and 600 miles later they found the wild animal embedded in their front fender - and very much alive. Daniel and Tevyn East were driving at night along Interstate 80 near the Nevada-Utah border when they noticed a pack of coyotes
near the roadside on October 12. When one of the animals ran in front of the car, the impact sounded fatal so the siblings thought there no point in stopping. 'Right off the bat, we knew it was bad,' Daniel explained. 'We thought the story was over.' After the incident around 1am, they continued their 600 mile drive to North San Juan - even stopping for fuel at least twice. But it was only when they finally reached their destination at 9am did they take time to examine what damage they may have sustained. At first it looked as though it was going to be quite gruesome. Daniel saw fur and the body inside the grill,' Tevyn East said. 'I was trying to keep some distance. Our assumption was it was part of the coyote - it didn't register it was the whole animal..' Daniel East got a broom to try and pry the remains out of the bumper and got the shock of his life. 'It flinched,' Tevyn East said. 'It was a huge surprise - he got a little freaked out.'
'We knew it was bad': Tevyn East, who was in the car when it hit the coyote, bends down to take a look at the fur poking through the fender
Fur Pete's sake: What Mr. East spotted as he bent down to inspect the damage to his car - the body of the coyote poking out through the radiator
Wily coyote: The animal's head can be seen as rescuers took apart the front fender to save it after it was struck by the car at 75mph
Miracle escape: As the animal struggled, wildlife protection officials put a loop around its neck to prevent it from further injuring itself The front of the car is completely taken apart as the coyote begins to wriggle free
And voila! Tricky the toughest coyote ever rests in a cage after its ordeal - which it survived with just some scrapes to its paw