Friday, February 1, 2019

Good News/ Bad News and is the computer male or female?

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Yehuda Lave, Spiritual Advisor and Counselor

Yehuda Lave is an author, journalist, psychologist, rabbi, spiritual teacher and coach, with degrees in business, psychology and Jewish Law. He works  with people from all walks of life and helps them in their search for greater happiness, meaning, business advice on saving money,  and spiritual engagement

It is not incumbent upon you to complete the work (Ethics of the Fathers 2:21).

 In economics, the bottom line measures success and failure. Someone who goes into a business venture with complete recklessness, yet makes a great deal of money, is considered a successful entrepreneur. Another person who was extremely cautious and applied sound business principles, yet went bankrupt, is considered a failure.

Unfortunately, we tend to apply these values to our personal, non-business lives. If things do not turn out the way we wish, we may think that we have performed badly. This is not true. If parents abuse and neglect their children, yet one child wins the Nobel Prize, or discovers the cure for cancer, they do not suddenly become good parents. On the other hand, if they did their utmost to raise their children well, yet one becomes a criminal, they are not necessarily bad parents.

We must understand that we have no control over outcome. All we can control is process, i.e. what we do. If we act with sincerity and with the best guidance available, then what we are doing is right.

Parents whose children turn out to be anti-social invariably fault themselves and may be consumed by guilt. Their pain is unavoidable, but their guilt is unjustified.

Humans do not have the gift of prophecy, nor do we always have the most accurate knowledge. We should hold ourselves responsible for that which we can control, but we should not hold ourselves responsible for that which is beyond our control.

Today I shall ...
... try to realize that I must judge the correctness of my actions by how I arrive at them, and not by what results from them.

Love Yehuda Lave

Andy Rooney shares what he has learned

Written by Andy Rooney, a man who had the gift of saying so much with so few words.//

  I've learned.... That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.

  I've learned.... That when you're in love, it shows.

  I've learned .... That just one person saying to me, 'You've made my day!' makes my day.

  I've learned.... That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.

  I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

  I've learned.... That you should never say no to a gift from a child.

  I've learned... That I can always pray for someone when I don't have the strength to help him in any other way

.   I've learned.... That no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.

  I've learned.... That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.

  I've learned.... That simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.

  I've learned.... That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.

  I've learned.... That money doesn't buy class.  

I've learned.... That it's those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.

  I've learned... That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.

  I've learned.... That to ignore the facts does not change the facts.

  I've learned... That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.

  I've learned.... That love, not time, heals all wounds.

  I've learned.... That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.

  I've learned.... That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.  

I've learned.... That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.  

I've learned.... That life is tough, but I'm tougher.

  I've learned.... That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.

  I've learned.... That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.

  I've learned.... That I wish I could have told my Mom that I love her one more time before she passed away.

  I've learned.... That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.

  I've learned.... That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.

  I've learned.... That when your newly born grandchild holds your little finger in his little fist, you're hooked for life.

  I've learned.... That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.

  I've learned.... That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.

Andrew Aitken Rooney was an American radio and television writer who was best known for his weekly broadcast "A Few Minutes with Andy Rooney", a part of the CBS News program 60 Minutes.

Is the Computer Male or Femaie?

Just for laughs and it is funny

See you Sunday (bli-neder) Shabbat Shalom

Love Yehuda Lave

Rabbi Yehuda Lave

2850 Womble Road, Suite 100-619, San Diego
United States


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