Maintaining Joy In Imperfection
Perfectionism and happiness don't go hand in hand. The human condition is imperfection. And that's why there is always more work to do in this world. And that is what will enable us to maintain humility even if we did accomplish a lot. But we need to maintain a sense of joy even though we aren't perfect. We were never meant to be perfect. But it is our mission to learn and to improve.
Perfectionism is the attitude, "It's either 100% or it's a total failure." In some areas this could be true. A serious operation that was almost successful failed if the patient died. If an airplane pilot almost made a safe landing but the plane crashed, it's a total failure for all those who were killed in the crash. But in the vast majority of the things we do, perfection might be nice, but it won't make too much of a difference.
A perfectionist is nervous the entire time. "What if it's not perfect?" they repeat to themselves. There are many ways that this won't be perfect and only one that would be considered perfect. Enjoy the positive activities that you are engaged in. Enjoy every bit of success. And enjoy the entire process of improving.
Love Yehuda Lave
Perfectionism and happiness don't go hand in hand. The human condition is imperfection. And that's why there is always more work to do in this world. And that is what will enable us to maintain humility even if we did accomplish a lot. But we need to maintain a sense of joy even though we aren't perfect. We were never meant to be perfect. But it is our mission to learn and to improve.
Perfectionism is the attitude, "It's either 100% or it's a total failure." In some areas this could be true. A serious operation that was almost successful failed if the patient died. If an airplane pilot almost made a safe landing but the plane crashed, it's a total failure for all those who were killed in the crash. But in the vast majority of the things we do, perfection might be nice, but it won't make too much of a difference.
A perfectionist is nervous the entire time. "What if it's not perfect?" they repeat to themselves. There are many ways that this won't be perfect and only one that would be considered perfect. Enjoy the positive activities that you are engaged in. Enjoy every bit of success. And enjoy the entire process of improving.
Love Yehuda Lave
20 IDEAS TO CONNECT
WITH THE ALMIGHTY
WITH THE ALMIGHTY
- Have a constant awareness of our Father, our King, Creator and Sustainer of the universe. As soon as you think of the Creator, you immediately connect with Him. Think of Him often.
- Feel a sense of awe for the Creator by frequently contemplating the size and complexity of the universe.
- Realize that you are created in the image of the Creator and you are His child. When looking in a mirror, say to yourself, "You are a child of the Creator."
- Everything you have in life is a gift from the Creator. Be constantly grateful. This gratitude creates love.
- The Almighty loves us more than we love ourselves. Frequently say to yourself, "The Almighty loves me even more than I love myself."
- Realize that everything that the Almighty causes to happen in your life is for a positive purpose. Some you will recognize, some you won't. Frequently repeat, "This, too, is for the good."
- Respect each human being because each human being is created in the Almighty's image.
- When you do an act of kindness, you are emulating the Almighty. Do so frequently.
- Every prayer you say, whether formal or in your own words, is an expression of connecting with the Creator.
- Make a blessing to thank the Creator before and after eating. This adds a spiritual dimension to the food you eat.
- Thank your Father, your King, for each and every breath. Since you are constantly breathing you are always connecting with the Creator.
- Let your awareness of the Almighty's love for you give you an inner sense of serene Trust.
- Developing your character traits is considered "Walking in the ways of the Almighty." Each positive step takes you far.
- Every life situation has been sent to you as a test and challenge from the Creator to help you grow and develop your character.
- Don't speak against or harm the Almighty's children. Thinking of this and acting accordingly connects you with the Creator.
- You are always in the present moment. Right now, connect with the Creator even if you've gotten off-track a moment ago.
- Sincere repentance out of love for the Almighty elevates you to such a degree that you can retroactively elevate the negative of the past with an absolute resolution not to repeat the mistakes of the past.
- Feel joy for the joy of the Almighty's children and have compassion for their distress.
- Realize that you are never alone. Wherever you are, the Almighty is always with you. Speak to Him in your own way and ask Him for your wants and needs.
- At all times, hear Your Father, your King, Creator and Sustainer of the universe saying to you, "I love yo
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