Wednesday, October 20, 2010

These Are NOT Photos - Incredible! and sweet things to say to your children

GOOD MORNING! I once saw a bumper sticker: "Hug Your Kids at Home; Belt Them in the Car". Obviously, the bumper sticker is a safety message to parents and not an invitation to child abuse. It is important to hug kids and to tell them "I love you!" I suspect very few of us - or our kids - ever complained that their parents hugged them too much or told them too many times "I love you."

A child needs to feel loved and safe. I try to ask each of my children at least once a day, "Do you know who loves you?" By now they know that the first answer is "God" (God loves each of us even more than we love our kids! It's important for kids to know this.) Then I ask them, "And who else?" And the child replies, "Daddy and Mommy!" Think what a wonderful epitaph it would be to have your children remember you by how you drove them "crazy" with hugs and kisses and asking them "Who loves you?"

A child needs physical contact with his parents. Here's a fun game called the "Rah Game": (1) the parent thinks of a spot on his face (i.e., the end of his nose). (2) The child guesses the spot by touching a spot on the parent's face. (3) If it is the wrong spot, the parent makes a funny face. (4) The child tries again; if it's the wrong spot, the parent makes a different funny face. When the child touches the right spot, the parent says, "RAH!" Then they switch roles and the child thinks of a spot on his face and has to make funny faces. There is a variation on this game called the "Boo Game." It's just like the "Rah Game," but instead of "RAH!" you say "BOO!"

Perhaps the most precious moments of the day are sitting with my children on their beds before they go to sleep. I and/or my wife hold them and listen to them say the Shema ("Hear O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is One" and the first paragraph following in the Siddur/prayer book) and the blessing before going to sleep. One says the Shema and the blessing to affirm trust in God and that He should watch out for you while you sleep.

What a wonderful way to end the day for a child - to be held and kissed by his parents and to go to sleep knowing that God is watching over him.

The old saying goes that "no one ever said on his death bed, 'I wish I spent more time at the office.'" There is no greater pleasure and no better investment in future pleasure than spending time with your children. Kids get the message loud and clear as to what your priorities are if you spend more time at work or in front of the TV than with them. People talk of "Quality Time" vs. "Quantity Time." Here's the truth: "Quality Time" is "Quantity Time"! The more time you spend with your kids, the more your kids know that they are priorities in your life and that you love them! Also, show them that you love them by praising them. For example:

 

68 WAYS TO PRAISE YOUR CHILD

FABULOUS WOW WAY TO GO SUPER YOU'RE SPECIAL OUTSTANDING EXCELLENT GREAT GOOD NEAT WELL DONE REMARKABLE I KNEW YOU COULD DO IT I'M PROUD OF YOU SUPER STAR NICE WORK LOOKING GOOD YOU'RE ON TOP OF IT BEAUTIFUL NOW YOU'RE FLYING YOU'RE CATCHING ON NOW YOU'VE GOT IT YOU'RE INCREDIBLE BRAVO YOU'RE FANTASTIC HURRAH FOR YOU YOU'RE ON TARGET YOU'RE ON YOUR WAY HOW SMART GOOD JOB DYNAMITE YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL YOU'RE UNIQUE NOTHING CAN STOP YOU NOW GOOD FOR YOU YOU'RE A WINNER REMARKABLE JOB BEAUTIFUL WORK SPECTACULAR YOU'RE PRECIOUS GREAT JOB MAGNIFICENT MARVELOUS TERRIFIC SUPERB PHENOMENAL YOU'RE SENSATIONAL SUPER WORK CREATIVE JOB EXCEPTIONAL YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE YOU'RE A GOOD LISTENER GREAT IMAGINATION TREMENDOUS EFFORT YOU CARE OUTSTANDING PERFORMANCE YOU'RE IMPORTANT YOU MEAN A LOT TO ME YOU MAKE ME HAPPY YOU BRIGHTEN MY DAY I RESPECT YOU YOU MEAN THE WORLD TO ME YOU'RE A JOY YOU'RE A TREASURE YOU'RE WONDERFUL AWESOME A+ JOB YOU'RE THE BEST     ... and never say "goodbye" without saying I LOVE YOU!


 
These are not photos - they are paintings!!!!
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Subject:  These Are NOT Photos - Incredible!
  AMAZING THAT THESE ARE NOT PHOTOS!  REALLY, HARD TO BELIEVE!
 
 The pictures in this file are nothing short of stunning.
 Quite literally, you must study them intensely to see even the most subtle evidence that they are, in fact, paintings...and it is only possible to do this in some of them.
 In others, you simply cannot do it. 
 What is truly amazing is that this lady has not only painted in such incredibly minute detail, but that she's tailored the images to include distortion toward the outer edges of the 'photos' in precisely the same way as the lens of a camera would.  
 This treatment is easily identified in the frame which includes a lamp post to the left of image center.
 What an incredible artist.
 Remember, these are paintings, not photos!
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 



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