Sadness is often the result of arrogance. When an arrogant  person suffers misfortune, he says to himself, "These things should not  be happening to a person like myself."  
 The humble person, however, calmly accepts whatever he is unable to  change. Hence he is never needlessly sad.
As we learn from the Wisest man in the bible, King Solomon, Turn, Turn, Turn, there is a time and place for everything.
  Love Yehuda
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