Develop a Tolerant Attitude
Develop a tolerant attitude toward the habits and idiosyncrasies of others. Otherwise, you'll find yourself constantly annoyed by others.
Try to turn the potential annoyance into something positive. For example, if you are attending a class and someone frequently asks irrelevant questions, don't become annoyed. Rather, view each question as an opportunity to help you build up your "tolerance muscles!"
Today, catch yourself getting annoyed by something, and consciously use it to develop your level of patience.
Love Yehuda
You will need a tolerant attitude for the story below
A                                                           man is driving                                                           down the road                                                           and breaks                                                           down near a                                                           monastery. He                                                            goes to the                                                           monastery,                                                           knocks on the                                                           door, and                                                           says, "My car                                                           broke  down.                                                           Do you think I                                                           could stay the                                                           night?"
                                                                                                                       
                                                       
                                                             The  monks                                                           graciously                                                           accept him,                                                           feed him                                                           dinner, and                                                           even fix his                                                           car.  As the man                                                            tries to fall                                                           asleep, he                                                           hears a                                                           strange sound;                                                           a sound like                                                           no  other that                                                           he has ever                                                           heard.   The next morning, he asks the                                                           monks what the                                                           sound was, but                                                           they  say, "We                                                           can't tell you                                                           because you're                                                           not a  monk."
                                                        
                                                             The  man is                                                           disappointed                                                           but thanks                                                           them anyway                                                           and goes about                                                           his merry                                                            way. Some                                                           years later,                                                           the same man                                                           breaks down in                                                           front of the                                                           same  monastery.   
                                                               
                                                             The  monks                                                           again accept                                                           him, feed him,                                                           and even fix                                                           his  car.
                                                      
                                                             That  night,                                                           he hears the                                                           same strange                                                           mesmerizing                                                           sound that he                                                           had heard                                                            years earlier.
                                                     
                                                             The  next                                                           morning, he                                                           asks what the                                                           sound was, but                                                           the monks                                                            reply,
                                                           "We  can't                                                           tell you                                                           because you're                                                           not a  monk."
                                                          
                                                           
                                                              
                                                           
                                                              
                                                      
                                                             The  man says,                                                           "All right,                                                           all right. I'm                                                           dying to know.
                                                           If the  only                                                           way I can find                                                           out what that                                                           sound was is                                                           to become a                                                           monk, how  do                                                           I become a                                                           monk?"
                                                             The  monks                                                           reply, "You                                                           must travel                                                           the Earth and                                                           tell us how                                                           many blades                                                            of grass there                                                           are and the                                                           exact number                                                           of sand                                                           pebbles. When                                                           you  find                                                           these numbers,                                                           you will                                                           become a                                                            monk."
                                                      
                                                             The  man sets                                                           about his                                                           task. Some                                                           forty-five                                                           years later,                                                           he returns                                                           and  knocks on                                                           the door of                                                           the monastery.                                                           He says, "I                                                           have travelled                                                           the  Earth and                                                           devoted my                                                           life to the                                                           task demanded                                                           and have found                                                           what  you had                                                           asked for.                                                           There are                                                           371,145,236,284,232                                                           blades of                                                           grass and                                                            231,281,219,999,129,382                                                           sand pebbles                                                           on the  earth
                                                        
                                                             The  monks                                                           reply,                                                           "Congratulations,                                                           you are                                                           correct, and                                                           you are now                                                            considered a                                                           monk.
                                                           We shall now                                                           show you the                                                           way  to  the sound."
                                                          
                                                             The  monks                                                           lead the man                                                           to a wooden                                                           door, where                                                           the head monk                                                           says, the                                                            sound is                                                           behind that                                                           door.
                                                              
                                                             The  man                                                           reaches for                                                           the knob, but                                                           the door is                                                           locked. He                                                           asks, "May I                                                            have the key?"
                                                          
                                                               The  monks                                                           give him the                                                           key, and he                                                           opens the                                                            door.
                                                           
                                                             Behind  the                                                           wooden door is                                                           another door                                                           made of                                                           stone...  The  man                                                           requests  the key to the stone door.
                                                              
                                                             The  monks                                                           give him the                                                           key, and he                                                           opens it, only                                                           to find a door                                                           made of  ruby.                                                           He demands                                                           another key                                                           from the                                                           monks, who                                                           provide it.                                                           Behind  that                                                           door is                                                           another door,                                                           this one made                                                           of  sapphire.  And so                                                          it   went on until the man had gone                                                           through doors                                                           of                                                            emerald,...
                                                          
                                                         
                                                             ...silver,                                                            topaz, and                                                           amethyst.
                                                            
                                                             Finally,  the                                                           monks                                                            say, "This is                                                           the key to the                                                           last door."
                                                        
                                                             The  man is                                                           relieved to be                                                           at the end. He                                                           unlocks the                                                           door, turns                                                            the knob, and                                                           behind that                                                           door he is                                                           astonished to                                                           find the                                                           source  of                                                           that strange                                                           sound. It is                                                           truly an                                                           amazing and                                                           unbelievable                                                           sight ....  
                                                          
                                                           
                                                             
                                                              
                                                           
                                                              
                                                           
                                                              
                                                           
                                                              
                                                             ... But I                                                           can't tell you                                                           what it is                                                           because you're                                                           not a monk.
                                                          
                                                           
                                                              
                                                           
                                                              
                                                          
                                                          
                                                           DON'T  YELL AT                                                           ME;  
I'M STILL HUNTING FOR THE IDIOT WHO STARTED THIS!
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