See the Other Side
When you need to influence people, see the entire situation from their viewpoint. You will then be able to present the matter in a way that will allow them to be happy about your proposal.
Many quarrels between family members and friends arise because one tries to influence the other in ways that create resentment. When you see the situation from the other person's point of view, you will have a greater awareness of what to say and what not to say.
Love Yehuda
20 IDEAS FOR CREATING A HAPPY LIFE
- Realize that happiness is a choice. You create happiness by thinking thoughts that create happiness in your own mind.
- Be grateful for all that you can be grateful for. Each and every day you will have things to be grateful for.
- Every happy and joyful moment that you've ever experienced is stored in your brain. Your brain is always with you. So you can relive your happiest and most joyful moments at any given time you choose. Choose to do so frequently.
- The way you personally evaluate any given situation and occurrence is the key factor for your emotional reaction. Master the ability to view situations and occurrences in positive, growth-filled ways. Keep asking yourself, "What is good about this and how can I grow from this?"
- Make meaningful goals. Take action. Be patient and persistent. Rejoice every step of the way towards those goals.
- Grow from each challenge you face. The greater the challenge, the more you grow. Appreciate the opportunity.
- Celebrate your personal character victories and you will have much to celebrate. Be resilient when you make a mistake. Resilience leads to many victories.
- See the good in other people and treat them kindly. They will usually reciprocate. You will live a happier life whether or not they reciprocate.
- This moment is the only moment that exists. Be joyful this moment. Learn from the past. Prepare for the future. And live joyfully in the present.
- Appreciate being alive so intensely that all the trivial and minor things that don't go the way you wish are irrelevant and inconsequential. The thought that reverberates in your mind will be, "I am joyful that I am alive right now."
- Smile and wave to mirrors. They like it and are guaranteed to reciprocate. This habit will ensure that you will always see a smiling face whenever you choose to look in a mirror.
- Learn from every joyful person you see. Talk and walk the way a joyful person does and you too will be joyful.
- Spend time with positive people. Being around an authentically happy person will make you happier. Be so happy yourself that your happiness is contagious.
- See the humor in challenges and potential difficulties. Laugh even before you see the humor and the humor will come to you.
- If needless negative thoughts come to your mind, just let them flow by as the water in a flowing river. Choose to flow in a positive mental direction.
- Whenever you hear a telephone ring, say enthusiastically, "I am grateful I am alive and I am grateful I can hear."
- Create inner music in your mind and create positive inner self-talk.
- Make a personalized positive recording for you to listen to. Write a list of statements that you would like to hear over and over again. Make the recording in your own voice. Play it frequently.
- Take mental vacations whenever you wish. Visualize the most beautiful scenery possible. Close your eyes and see yourself being in your utopian spot. Allow yourself to release all stress and tension. Feel the happiness of knowing that this paradise is yours.
- Bring happiness to as many people as you can!
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