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Others will respect you more for being honest and open rather than being evasively defensive. Ultimately you will gain more self-respect, and enjoy your life more.
GOOD MORNING! Judaism has something for everyone. If you like to drink, we have Purim. If you like asceticism or self-denial we have Yom Kippur. If you like to play with fire, we have Lag B'omer (celebrated with bonfires!) If you like to dance, we have Simchat Torah, and ... if you like the great outdoors, we have Sukkot!
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Others will respect you more for being honest and open rather than being evasively defensive. Ultimately you will gain more self-respect, and enjoy your life more.
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GOOD MORNING! Judaism has something for everyone. If you like to drink, we have Purim. If you like asceticism or self-denial we have Yom Kippur. If you like to play with fire, we have Lag B'omer (celebrated with bonfires!) If you like to dance, we have Simchat Torah, and ... if you like the great outdoors, we have Sukkot!
Sukkot starts Wednesday evening, September 18th. Sukkot means "booths."  During the 40 years of wandering in the desert we lived in Sukkot.    We are commanded in the Torah regarding this holiday, "You shall dwell   in booths for seven days ... so that your generations will know that I   caused the Children of Israel to dwell in booths when I took them out of   Egypt, I am the Lord your God" (Leviticus 23:42-43). We are commanded to make our Sukkah our main dwelling place -- to eat, sleep, learn Torah and spend our time there.  If one would suffer from being in a Sukkah   -- i.e., from rain or snow -- or heat and humidity -- he is freed from   the obligation to dwell there.  We make, however, every effort to at   least eat in the Sukkah -- especially the first night.
The love and enthusiasm you put into building a Sukkah and decorating it makes a big impact on your children.  A friend told me that his father was a klutz (not handy) with tools and their Sukkah would oftentimes fall down.  But, what he remembers is his father's love for the mitzvah of building the Sukkah   and happiness in building it each time.  We cannot decree that our   children have our love for our heritage.  However, by showing them our   delight and energy in the mitzvot, they build their own love for   Torah and the holiday.  A teacher once said, "Parents only owe their   children 3 things: example, example, example."
We are also commanded to wave the arbah minim,   the Four Species, during the week-long holiday.  There are many deep   and mystical meanings to be found regarding waving the Four Species.   Waving them in all four directions of the compass as well as up and down   is symbolic that the Almighty controls the whole world, the winds and   all forces -- everything everywhere.  A second lesson from holding the   Four Species together -- all Jews are bound together as one people, be   they saints or sinners, knowledgeable or ignorant (see Dvar Torah!).
The Torah   tells us, "...On the fifteenth of the seventh month (counting from the   Hebrew month of Nissan when the Jews left Egypt) shall be the holiday of   Sukkot, seven days (of celebration) for the Almighty. The first day   shall be a holy convocation; all manners of work (creative acts as   defined by the Torah) you shall not do; it is an eternal decree in all   of your dwelling places for all generations" (Leviticus 23:34-35).
Sukkot is called zman simchateinu,   the time of our joy.  Joy is distinct from happiness.  Happiness is   taking pleasure in what you have.  Joy is the pleasure of anticipating a   future good.  If we trust in God and know that everything the Almighty   does for us and will do for us is for our good, then we will know great   joy in our lives!
Deuteronomy 16:13-15 tells us "The festival of Sukkot shall   be to you for seven days when you gather from your threshing floors and   your wine cellar.  You shall rejoice in your festival ... for the   Almighty will bless you in all of your produce and in all of the work of   your hand and you shall be completely joyous."  It is fitting that Sukkot is   a harvest festival.  People who work the earth are amongst the most   religious of people trusting in the Almighty (followed perhaps by   fundraisers ... ).  They take a perfectly good seed that could be eaten   and they stick it in the ground not knowing whether there will be rain   or drought or floods or pestilence.  They put forth hard work not   knowing the outcome.  They trust in the Almighty for their food and   their very existence.
The mitzvah of dwelling in the Sukkah teaches   us trust in God.  We tend to think that our possessions, our money, our   homes, our intelligence will protect us.  During Sukkot we are exposed to the elements in a temporary hut.  Living in a Sukkah puts   life into perspective.  Our possessions are transient -- and our   corporeal beings are even more transient than our possessions.   Life is   vulnerable.  Our history has borne out how transient are our homes and   communities.  No matter how well-established, wealthy and "secure" we   have become in a host country, in the end it too has been a temporary   dwelling.   Our trust must be in God.
As King David   wrote in Psalms 20:8 "There are those who trust in chariots and those   who trust in horses, but we trust in the name of the Almighty."  Only   the Almighty is the Creator of the world, the Master of history, our   personal and caring God Who can be relied upon to help us.
During the Festival of Sukkot when   we had our Temple in Jerusalem, 70 offerings were brought-- one for   each nation of the world -- so that the Almighty would provide rain for   their crops.  The Talmud tells us that if the nations of the world   understood the value of what the Jewish people provided them, they would   have sent their armies to defend our Temple in Jerusalem to keep it   from being destroyed!
Sukkot is one of the Shelosh Regalim, Three Festivals (the other two are Pesach and Shavuot),   where the Torah commands everyone living in Israel to leave their homes   to come to Jerusalem to celebrate at the Temple.  For the last 2,000   years since the destruction of the Temple, we've been unable to fulfill   this mitzvah.  May we soon be able to fulfill this mitzvah once again in its entirety!    For more, go to: 
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