Thursday, April 11, 2013

Fwd: Liberating Buchenwald



   Stick To the Topic In Arguments

Whenever you argue with someone, keep the argument limited to the issue at hand. Refrain from bringing in other matters which increase the emotional intensity.


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Liberating Buchenwald

Liberating Buchenwald

How Rabbi Herschel Schacter saved the life of a Jewish boy who grew up to be Rabbi Yisrael Meir Lau.

by Steve Eisenberg

Excerpted from "Small Miracles from the Holocaust," by Yitta Halberstam and Judith Leventhal

Union, New Jersey, is a drab, grey, blue-collar town, not a place I would ordinarily visit. But a business meeting had been scheduled in this most unlikely place, so I left my usual stomping grounds in Manhattan and hopped a bus from Port Authority. Now the meeting – which had ended badly – was over, and I was brooding about it, deep in thought, standing at a windswept bus stop with two other commuters – a middle aged woman and a stooped elderly man.

"When's the next bus to Manhattan due?" the woman approached the man.

Perhaps the older gentleman was hard of hearing, or perhaps he was trying to collect his thoughts. At any rate, he didn't answer immediately. Instead, he gazed at the woman with a blank stare.

She went ballistic. "You idiot! What's the matter with you?! Don't you have any common courtesy? What are you, stupid?" She went on and on, hurling a volley of insults, curses and epithets at the bewildered man.

He looked at the yarmulke on my head, and motioned me to his side.

"Do you speak Yiddish?" he whispered in a thick, guttural accent.

I nodded yes.

"Ze's an achta meshugenah." (She's crazy).

I smiled in commiseration.

The bus arrived, and I boarded quickly. I looked forward to my solitude and the opportunity to review the sequence of events that had led to the abysmal conclusion of the meeting. The bus was nearly empty, so I snuggled into a corner and closed my eyes.

"Ah, so good to find a landsman in Union, New Jersey!" a voice sighed into my ear.

The elderly gentleman had settled into the seat next to me, clearly seeking companionship. "Not too many Jews in Union, you know. Where do you live?"

Probably a lonely Holocaust survivor, I thought. It's a mitzvah to give him a little attention. I would have to reassemble my thoughts some other time.

"I live on the Upper West Side," I said with a smile.

"Ah, the Upper West Side," he said, fumbling for a connection. "Do you know Rabbi Schacter? Do you attend his shul?"

"You mean the Jewish Center? I don't happen to attend that particular synagogue, but certainly I know of Rabbi Schacter. He's a renowned and highly respected Rabbi. Why do you ask?"

"I knew his father – Rabbi Herschel Schacter," the man said with obvious pride. "He was the one who liberated me from Buchenwald. I will never forget that day for as long as I live."

Rabbi Schacter was among the first to enter the gates, declaring: "Yidden, you are free.'

"Can you tell me about it?" I asked eagerly. Holocaust stories have a particular resonance with me.

"Buchenwald was eerily quiet. We were all in our barracks, waiting for roll call. We didn't see or hear any of the Nazi officers milling around, but we were still too afraid to venture outside to investigate. Then we heard the roar of military vehicles as the front ranks of the American troops stormed Buchenwald.

"Rabbi Herschel Schacter, the Jewish chaplain, was among the first to enter the gates. He immediately made his way to the administrative offices where the PA system was housed, and broadcast this message in Yiddish over the camp's loudspeakers. I will never forget what he said: "'Yidden (my fellow Jews, my brothers), it's over. Yidden, you are free. Yidden, we are the American troops here to liberate you. Yidden, you can come out now.'

"But few of us did. We were frightened. Most of us thought it was a trick. We couldn't really fathom that the nightmare had truly ended. I was one of the few who came forward, and I trailed behind Rabbi Schacter in wonderment as he began inspecting the camp with the American generals at his side. An American soldier who spoke Yiddish. Amazing!

"The American officers and Rabbi Schacter were clearly devastated by the carnage they saw. They walked around with dazed expressions of disbelief. With stricken eyes, they stared alternately at the mounds of corpses piled neatly in rows and the skeletons strewn haphazardly on the ground. They reeled from the stench, from the furnaces still hot, from the ashes still smoldering in the air. Groans of horror, gasps of shock, continuously issued from their lips. Despite all the reports they had heard in advance, they had never conceived of or been prepared for such depravity, such evil, as they witnessed now.

"At one point, Rabbi Schacter stood paralyzed in front of a mound of corpses, unable to go on. Suddenly, a slight movement caught his eye. He touched the arm of the general accompanying him. 'I think I saw one of the corpses move,' he trembled in excitement. 'I think one of them is still alive!'

"'Rabbi, it's impossible,' the general gently remonstrated him. 'Even if the person was still alive when he was thrown into the pit, the weight of all the other bodies on top of him would have suffocated him to death.'

"'No, no no," Rabbi Schacter insisted. 'Don't you see some movement? I see it, I see it even now!'

"'Rabbi,' the general repeated patiently, 'I know how much it would mean to you to be able to save even one life, but it's your imagination, sir. All those people in the pit are dead.'

He stumbled upon a small child, wide-eyed with fear, hiding behind a pile of bodies.

"But Rabbi Schacter was not easily persuaded. He drew closer to the mound of corpses, and began circling it slowly. It was then that he stumbled upon a small child, wide-eyed with fear, who had been hiding behind the pile of bodies, and whose slight motion Rabbi Schacter's eagle eye had detected.

"'I found a child! I found a child!' he yelled to the officers. 'A child in Buchewald, alive! It's a miracle!' He whooped joyously. Rabbi Schacter knelt down before the child, and embraced him gently. 'What is your name, sweet child?' he asked in Yiddish.

"'Lulek,' the child answered, eyes averted.

'And how old are you, Lulek?' Rabbi Schacter asked tenderly.

"'What's the difference?' the boy said sadly. 'What are numbers? Believe me, with what I have seen, and what I have experienced, I am older than you. You can laugh and you can cry, but I can no longer do either.'

"Rabbi Schacter later discovered that the boy – perhaps the youngest known survivor of the concentration camps – was only eight years old. One and a half million innocent children had already been brutally murdered by the Nazis and against all odds, this one child had clung on to life. The Nazis routinely killed all children who entered the camps, and the discovery of this lone child was both a shock and a triumph. A combination of miraculous circumstances and his own steely resolve had kept young Lulek alive.

"Rabbi Schacter insisted that Lulek stay at his side; he didn't want to let him go. He asked Lulek to accompany him to the prisoners barracks, where the inmates were still hiding, so that he could personally reassure them that it was true: they were liberated, they were free, it was over. He held Lulek's hand tightly as they walked from one barracks to another, announcing the same message over and over again: 'Yidden, you are free. Yidden, it is over. Yidden, you are free.

"And do you know who this little child Lulek turned out to be?" the elderly gentleman asked me with a triumphant smile, as our bus rolled into Port Authority.

"Yisrael Meir Lau, Chief Rabbi of Israel!"


A few weeks later, I was rushing down the streets of the Upper West Side, trying to get to my shul for the afternoon prayer service of Mincha. When I realized I wouldn't make it in time, I decided to duck into the nearest functioning synagogue. By chance, it happened to be The Jewish Center, presided over by Rabbi Jacob Schacter, Rabbi Hershel Schacter's son.

After mincha, we crossed paths, and I told Rabbi Schacter of my encounter on the bus with the Buchenwald survivor. As I recounted the survivor's tale, Rabbi Schacter began weeping, and he pumped my hand in gratitude. "You know, my father told me this story 30 years ago," he said, "and of course, I believed him. But it means so much to me to have it corroborated by a witness, and to hear the events that occurred depicted from this man's perspective. You don't know what this means to me. You have given me a gift."

Just a short time after this conversation took place, I traveled to the Catskills for the weekend and stayed at a summer resort called Vacation Village. Every Sabbath, Vacation Village hosts a different distinguished guest, and unbeknownst to myself, the scholar in residence on that particular weekend just happened to be Rabbi Herschel Schacter, liberator of Buchenwald.

After his speech ended, I raised my hand and asked if I might recount a story that I had recently heard about his experiences in Buchenwald. He graciously gave his assent, and I proceeded with my tale. I felt privileged to be able to tell the 400 people in the audience how Rabbi Schacter was responsible for the rescue and well-being of the current Chief Rabbi of Israel.

There was only a short interval that lapsed between this and my final experience with the story. Not many days had passed when I was summoned to a fund-raising dinner I was reluctant to attend. My tentativeness, however, immediately vanished, when I entered the ballroom and saw on the dais none other than Lulek – Rabbi Yisrael Meir Lau, the Chief Rabbi of Israel. Sitting next to him was... Rabbi Herschel Schacter.


Rabbi Lau was called to the podium to deliver a speech, but before he launched into his opening remarks, he introduced Rabbi Schacter to the audience. "You see this man over here?" he pointed to the Buchenwald liberator. "He saved my life."

Rabbi Herschel Schacter recently passed away at the age of 95.

Excerpted from "Small Miracles from the Holocaust," by Yitta Halberstam and Judith Leventhal



The ' L I T T L E ' Things~

As you might remember, the head of a company survived
9/11  because his son started kindergarten
.

Another fellow was alive because it was

His turn to bring donuts.


One woman was late because her

Alarm clock didn't go off in time.


One was late because of being stuck on the NJ Turnpike

Because of an auto accident.


One of them

Missed his bus.


One spilled food on her clothes and had to take
Time to change.


One's

Car wouldn't start.


One couldn't
Get a taxi.


T
he one that struck me was the man
Who put on a new pair of shoes that morning,
Took the various means to get to work
But before he got there, he developed
a  blister on his foot.


He stopped at a drugstore
to buy a Band-Aid.
That is why he is alive today..



Now when I am

Stuck in traffic
,
Miss an elevator,

Turn back to answer a ringing telephone
...
All the little things that annoy me.
I think to myself,
This is exactly where

God wants me to be
At this very moment..


Next time your morning seems to be

Going wrong
,

The children are slow getting dressed,

You can't seem to find the car keys,

You hit every traffic light,

Don't get mad or frustrated;

It May be just that

God is at work watching over you.


May God continue to bless you

With all those annoying little things

And may you remember their possible purpose.


Pass this on to someone else, if you'd like.
There is NO LUCK attached.
If you delete this, it's okay:

God's Love Is Not Dependent on you
(that's  the cool part)

A
M E N

 

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Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Five ways to Stay in Love Forever and Bambi & Thumper



Material Worries

A person who places his main focus on spiritual growth will not worry about material matters. He wants material goods for their function as tools for his spiritual needs. He therefore feels assured that he will be supplied with whatever he needs to meet his spiritual needs. If he lacks something, he realizes that he does not have a spiritual need for it.
Love Yehuda Lave
5 Ways to Stay In Love Forever
1. CHERISH YOUR WIFE. RESPECT YOUR HUSBAND The core emotional need of a woman is to be cherished. This is the husband's number one responsibility. That means making her feel loved and appreciated, that she's your number one priority. A man's core emotional need is to feel respected by his wife. When he comes home, he wants to feel that there is at least one person in the world who thinks he's got what it takes. That means getting off the phone when he walks in the door.
2. TREAT EACH OTHER LIKE GOOD FRIENDS Under the marriage canopy one of the seven blessings given to the bride and groom is that they should become "beloved friends." The hallmark of friendship is that each person validates and respects the other person's feelings and needs. Validation means: What's important to you is important to me. It's a key way to make your spouse feel loved.
3. REMEMBER THE FOUR GOLDEN WORDS: LISTEN, COMPROMISE, REPAIR, GRATITUDE Agree to keep one basic rule at the beginning of your marriage: No matter how upset you are, never launch a verbal attack. Fighting with insults only makes problems worse and erodes the relationship. Instead, implement the four golden words:
Listening: It's essential for working together and solving problems. Allow your spouse to speak without interruption and then repeat what has just been said. This reassures your spouse that he or she was heard.
Compromise: Strive to solve problems where both of you are happy with the solution. Neither one should feel coerced into accepting the other person's point of view.
Repair: When you hurt each other emotionally, repair the breakdown and remove the lingering feelings of anger and resentment. Aim for 100% reconciliation. A little resentment multiplied 50 times can create a wall of bitterness.
Gratitude: You can never say thank you enough to your spouse. Try to notice everything your spouse does for you and acknowledge it with sincere gratitude.
4. ESTABLISH STRONG BOUNDARIES Your spouse is your number one priority -- not your parents, relatives, friends, children, work, or hobbies. Set strong boundaries that show you value your marriage and don't allow anyone or anything to weaken your relationship.
That means meeting your spouse's needs before your parents' needs, coming home with enough time left in the evening to have quality time together.
5. GIVE EACH OTHER PLEASURE DAILY Marriage is ultimately about making each other feel good and striving to give your spouse pleasure on a daily basis on his or her terms -- whether it's physical affection, words of affirmation, receiving gifts, acts of service (like helping out in the house, running errands) or spending quality time. Get in the daily habit of doing it. You'll enjoy giving more than receiving.


Subject: FW: Bambi & Thumper



  This was taken in Alberta , Canada in a back yard...Very cool!
Bambi & Thumper ....really do exist! 

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What an incredible photographer
  to have caught these shots...




















May you always have
 
Love to Share,
 
Health to Spare,
 
And Friends that Care.






 



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Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Kotel Rabbi Promises Women Won’t Be Arrested for Saying ’Kaddish and Happy Hebrew birthday to me



Everything Is Relative


Personality traits are like raw material, intrinsically neutral. Classifying any particular trait as positive or negative changes according to the specific way it is employed by an individual in a given situation. If you utilize each trait in its proper time and place, then that trait is considered positive. But if you apply a trait when it is inappropriate, it is considered negative.

For example, the positive trait of "generosity" can actually be negative if it turns into smothering and stifling. On the other hand, the negative trait of anger can be positive when used to fight against evil and injustice

Love Yehuda Lave

Kotel Rabbi Promises Women Won't Be Arrested for Saying 'Kaddish'


Published: April 5th, 2013

Women of the Wall hold Torah school in prayer outside Old City police station where others were detained for wearing prayer shawls at the Kotel February 11
Women of the Wall hold Torah school in prayer outside Old City police station where others were detained for wearing prayer shawls at the Kotel February 11
Photo Credit: Miriam Alster/FLASH90
The rabbi of the Western Wall has promised Jewish Agency chairman Natan Sharansky that women will not arrested if they dare to say the mourners' "kaddish" prayer at the Western Wall.
The "Great Enlightenment" of Rabbi Shmuel Rabinowitz is the latest chapter in the saga of the Women of the Wall (WOW), whose movement – however suspect its motives might be – has exposed a total disconnect between Haredi rabbis' outlook and the Jewish world at-large.
The flak over the recital of the recital of the Kaddish prayer also has showed that Jerusalem police act on the orders of Rabbi Rabinowitz.
WOW plans to pray on next week's Holocaust Remembrance Day (Yom HaShoah) and on Rosh Chodesh at the Western Wall, which has a  partition to separate men and women according to the ancient custom practiced today even by non-Haredi orthodox communities.
But reciting the Kaddish? That also is too much for the Western Wall rabbi, who might be relying on the Haredi prohibition of a man God forbid, hearing a woman's voice and therefore losing his concentration on his prayers.
Jerusalem police commission Yossi Pariente wrote Anat Hoffman, chairman of WOW, "We would like to inform you that, starting on this coming Rosh Chodesh, the Israel Police will fulfill its duty to enforce the law."
The police previously have arrested women trying to pray in a minyan of 10 people on Rosh Chodesh, the first day of the new month. The women's group has drawn worldwide publicity by wearing prayer shawls and trying to carry a Torah scroll to the Western Wall, in violation of a High Court order.
There is a solid foundation of rabbinic laws against the women's monthly attraction, which understandably is seen as a provocation by Israeli Jews, even those who are not Haredi or even not orthodox.
But the altercations of the police and the scenes of a Jew being arrested for holding a Torah scroll have played into the hands of the WOW movement and have indeed been a provocation – provoking more hatred of rabbinic authority.
The motives of the Women of the Wall are more than just reciting prayers or reading from a Torah scroll. They openly campaign against what they call a "monopoly" of Orthodox Judaism, which has been around for 3,500 years, leaving open the question of how tolerant women and Reform Jewish leaders would be of Haredi demands if they were to be in authority.
Instead of dealing with the challenge in a 21st fashion – perhaps sitting down with the women  and learning with them the Talmudic  views that actually promote many aspects of modern feminism – the Haredi community has chosen measures that conjure up horrid visions of centuries of non-Jewish rules' disgust of Jews and Judaism.
"Prohibiting women from saying Kaddish is a shanda (Yiddish for shameful) and brought on solely by the hegemony and short-sightedness of Rabbi Rabinowitz," said Hoffman in response to the letter Jerusalem Police Chief Pariente. "He has, without a doubt, crossed a clear red line, as women's right to say Kaddish is respected and accepted by the entire Jewish world, including Orthodox factions…
"To refuse mothers and mourning women the right and obligation of saying the mourner's prayer, Kaddish, is cold-hearted. Women of the Wall will be at the Kotel and will say Kaddish, with the utmost religious intention and emotional commitment that is deserved and require of us."
The issue has become so emotional that there is almost no room for any logical or knowledgeable input. American Jewish journalists and non-Orthodox Jewish leaders, often without any understanding of Jewish law, have jumped on the harassment of women to show Judaism as Medieval and allegedly anti-feminist.
One of the most recent examples is Peter Beinart's Open Zion blog on the Daily Beast.
He posted an article by Emily Hauser, who has made herself one of thousands of modern "commentators" on the Torah. She titled one recent article, "Moses was a jerk, & Passover wouldn't have happened without five women."
Hauser exploited Pariente's letter to promote populism whereby everyone is a religious authority. The "Israel's government is telling the world's Jews that they know what Judaism is, and we don't," she wrote.
Prime Minister Binyamin Netanyahu belated turned to Sharansky several months ago to solve the problem of WOW's demands and the Western Wall rabbi's refusal to listen, and he is in the final stages of drafting recommendations to decrease tensions.
Last month, three female Knesset members joined the Women of the Wall for the monthly Rosh Chodesh prayer, and police, for the first time, did not break up the prayer service.

About the Author: Tzvi Ben Gedalyahu is a graduate in journalism and economics from The George Washington University. He has worked as a cub reporter in rural Virginia and as senior copy editor for major Canadian metropolitan dailies. Tzvi wrote for Arutz Sheva for several years before joining the Jewish Press.


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Monday, April 8, 2013

Why Six Million Died




  Appreciate All You Have


Try imagining your life without all that you presently have. If you can master this ability, then you will appreciate what you do have to such a degree that you will live a life of constant joy.

If you were lost in a wilderness without food and water - and then found some bread, you would enjoy that bread more than the most sumptuous meal! Rabbi Simcha Zissel of Kelm wrote that he personally had such an experience, and it was like living in paradise. You will always be able to feel that joy if you use your mind wisely.

Today, spend a few moments imagining what it would be like if you had absolutely nothing: no family, no friends, no possessions, no money at all, no knowledge, no eyes, ears, hands, feet - absolutely nothing. Continue this exercise until you actually feel it.
Then do the second half of this meditation and learn to appreciate what you do have.
Love Yehuda Lave


                Conversation with God
 
        Man:  God?
        God:  Yes?
        Man:  Can I ask you something?
        God:  Of course!
        Man:  What's a million years to you?
        God:  A second.
        Man:  And a million dollars?
        God:  A penny.
        Man:  God, can I have a penny?
        God:  Yes, just wait a second.





Rabbi Revealed Why Six Million Died


Published: April 7th, 2013

A street in Budapest, Hungary, 1944.
The ultimate Jewish response to the Holocaust is summarized by the verse: "For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways, says God. As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts" (Isaiah 55:8-9), which Maimonides relies on in his Laws of Repent (5:5): "Man is incapable of perceiving the Creator's ideas, as the prophet said, "for My thoughts are not your thoughts nor your ways My ways."
Nevertheless, we accept the notion that God does not base His world on chance. The hand of God is involved in history. No one is claiming to be thinking God's thoughts and conducting the divine bookkeeping, but we were brought up believing that troubles don't befall a person by accident, even when they don't understand it. Everything is a sign from Heaven, including the worst state of "hester panim," the obscuring of God's face, in total chaos, in the trampling of Jewish honor and the humiliation of the Torah of Israel.
It would be extremely difficult to suggest that the catastrophe that befell our entire nation – Ashkenazim and Sephardim; Eastern and Western Europeans and North Africans; Torah scholars, sworn heretics and the completely assimilated; Hasidim and Misnagdim; day old babies and the elderly; Capitalists and Communists; the educated and the ignorant – absolutely every strata of the nation – was an accident.
In extremely Haredi circles, those madmen who travel to Tehran to embrace the enemy Ahmajinedad, there are no doubts regarding God's message: the Holocaust happened because of the creation and the existence of the Zionist movement, whose heavy sin is the breaking of the "three vows."
According to tractate Ketubot 111a, when the Jews went into the second exile, in the year 70, three vows were taken by them and by God: the Jews would not conquer the land of Israel by force, they would not rebel against the nations of the world, and the non­Jews would not oppress the Jews too much (yoter midai).
That was the view of the Satmar Rebbe, Rabbi Joel Teitelbaum (who, ironically enough, was saved from death in the Holocaust by Hungarian Zionist official Rudolph Kastner, who made a deal with a deputy of Adolf Eichmann)
In his book, "Va'Yoel Moshe," Rabbi Teitelbaum argues that even if all the citizens of Israel were adhering to all the commandments, totally righteous, if all the government ministers wore shtreimlach, settling the land of Israel would still constitute the breaking of those vows.

WRITTEN IN AN ATTIC

It's easy to write such delusional things when you're sitting in New York City, which protects even the rights of crackpots. It was much harder to comment on the same topic from the darkness of a hiding place in an attic in Budapest, Hungary, while Nazi thugs were hunting down the last remaining hidden Jews of the city.
Rabbi Yisachar Shlomo Teichtal (1885-1945), an extremist Haredi who was close to the Satmar circles, was watching the Gestapo hunters through a narrow crack in his hidden attic, and, through a spiritual and physical review of his terrifyingly lowly reality, reached a brave conclusion: it was the erroneous concept typical of his Haredi pals regarding the resettlement of Eretz Israel that had brought on us those cruel tortures and grotesque deaths.
Rabbi Teichtal began his rabbinic path with an adherence to the philosophy that was common to most Hungarian rabbis: everything new was forbidden by the Torah, including aliyah to Eretz Israel, and certainly coalescing with the secular Zionists to rebuild the land. But following the horrors his eyes had seen, he changed his views 180 degrees. After reexamining his own beliefs, he investigated the issues regarding resettling the land of Israel and natural redemption ("geula b'derech ha'teva), and reached the conclusion that the reason for the Holocaust was that the nation of Israel was called by God to ascend to Eretz Israel, but because it had fallen in love with life in the diaspora it turned its back on Eretz Israel.
He wrote his conclusions while in hiding in his dark attic in Budapest. His books were not with him, and so he had to cite from memory thousands of Torah sources supporting his new position. Unfortunately, the brutes finally reached him, too, and sent him to his death. He was murdered on a transport train during the final days of World War II. But his writing became the monumental, 500-page sefer Eim HaBanim Semeichah – Eretz Yisrael, Redemption and Unity.
He wrote:
The Purpose of our Affliction Is to Arouse Us to Return to Eretz Yisrael
…The sole purpose of all the afflictions that smite us in our exile is to arouse us to return to our Holy Land. This can be inferred from the story of King David and the plague. During the plague, God sent him Gad the prophet. And God came to david…and said to him, "Go up and establish an altar to the Lord" (II Samuel 24:18). The Misrash explains:
This can be likened to a father who beat his son, but the son did not know why he was being punished. After the beating, the father said, "For several days I have been commanding you to do something and you have ignored me. Now go and do it." So, too, the thousands who fell at the time of David died only because they did not demand the building of the beit haMikdash. From this we can derive a kal vachomer (an a fortiori inference). If they, in whose days the Beit HaMikdash was neither built nor destroyed, were punished for not having demanded its construction; then we, in whose days the Beit HaMikdash was destroyed … certainly [deserve punishment], for we do not mourn nor supplicate (Midrash Tehillim 17).
Rashi on Hoshea (3:5) cites the following:
R. Shimon ben Menassiya said: "The Jewish people will not be shown a good sign until they once again request the kingdom of Heaven, the kingdom of the House of David, and the rebuilding of the Beit HaMikdash. It is thus written, Afterwards, the Children of Israel will return and seek out the Lord their God and David their king (Hoshea 3:5).
Behold, our desire to return to Eretz Israel encompasses these three elements. Firstly, "He who dwells in Eretz Israel is like one who has a God" (Ketubot 110b). Also, the rebuilding of the Beit HaMikdash will occur (with God's help) when we assemble in Eretz Israel, as explained in Megillah 17b-18a. Afterwards, Mashiach, who represents the kingdom of the House of David, will arrive, as I will demonstrate in this volume. First and foremost, though, we must strive to return to Eretz Israel and then, with God's help, we will attain these three objectives.
Rabbi Teichtal wrote his piercing words literally during the Holocaust. But he was preceded by many gedolim, who warned of the approaching Holocaust, years before it began. The great Meir Simcha Ha'Cohen of Dvinsk (1843–1926), author of the Ohr Somayach, ruled that the "three vows" were nullified by the San Remo Conference of 1920, empowering Great Britain to put into effect the 1917 Balfour Declaration to the establishment in Palestine of a national home for the Jewish people.
The latter warned, 25 years before the Holocaust, that the day would come, in which "the Israelite [in diaspora] will forget his origins and be counted as citizen [of the world]… Will think that Berlin is Jerusalem… Then a stormy wind will come, uproot him and subject him before a faraway gentile nation." (Meshech Chochma, Vayikra 26).
The nation of Israel preferred, sadly, life in diaspora over the promised land, and paid for it an unbearable price. This excessive affection for diaspora was expressed in this popular Jewish joke: One day a Jewish villager comes home and tells his wife that the Rabbi in shul was saying that when Moshiach comes, he will lead all the Jews to Eretz Israel. So his wife becomes very upset, asking what would they do with all their barnyard animals.
We'll leave them to the Cossacks, says her husband.
Well, if God likes us so much, he should let us stay here and take the Cossacks to Eretz Israel, says his wife.
Much like those two fools, the nation of Israel chose to remain spread among the nations, for which we were sentenced to a reeducation camp the likes of which we will never forget.

About the Author: Born in Tel Aviv in 1943. Graduated Bar Ilan University (Political Science and History) and Haifa University (Political Science). Chaired the Maariv political desk for 24 years. Married with children and grandchildren. Living in Raanana.


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Sunday, April 7, 2013

Is a human Kosher

A Human Kosher?

Published: April 4th, 2013
Latest update: April 5th, 2013
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This column is dedicated to the refuah sheleimah of Shlomo Eliezer ben Chaya Sarah Elka.

In this week's parshah the Torah teaches us which animals are kosher and which are not. There is a machlokes Rishonim whether one may eat human meat. The Rambam derives from a pasuk in this week's parshah that says that from any animal that has split hooves and chews its cud, "osah tocheilu – that one you may eat" – that it is forbidden to eat human meat. However, the Rambam says that it is not a lo sa'asei but rather it is only an issur asei (a prohibition derived from something the Torah commands us to do, i.e. the Torah commanded us to eat from kosher animals; thus we can draw from this that we should not eat from anything else).

The Ra'uh (Kesubos 60a) is of the opinion that human meat is forbidden to eat by means of a lo sa'asei. The Ramban, the Rashba and the Ritvah opine that it is permitted to eat human meat.

The Ramban asks the following question on the Rambam and the Ra'uh: The Gemara, in Krisus 21b, says that human blood and milk is permitted to be consumed. If the meat of a human is indeed prohibited, we should apply the rule of kol hayotzei min hatamei, tamei – anything that comes out of a forbidden thing is also forbidden. Since it is forbidden to eat human meat it should also be forbidden to eat anything that comes out of a human – namely his blood and milk.

The Maggid Mishneh suggests two solutions to this question. He says that there is a special drasha that the Gemara made that permits the consumption of a human's milk and blood. The fact that the Torah needed to write an extra drasha is a proof to the opinion of the Rambam. So if the meat of a human were indeed permitted to be consumed, why would the Torah need to write an extra drasha permitting human blood and milk? It should be permitted without a drasha, since if human meat is permitted human milk and blood should be as well. From this drasha we see that human meat is indeed forbidden; thus the Torah needed to write a special drasha to permit a human's blood and milk.

Reb Chaim Soloveitchik explains that the Rishonim who asked this question knew that there is a special drasha that permits the blood and milk of a human. However, they learned that the drasha was not needed to permit the blood and milk from the issur of kol hayotzei min hatamei, tamei. Rather they understood the drasha was needed so that we would not consider milk and blood to be just like human flesh and prohibit the flesh, milk and blood all in the same prohibition. The drasha, in their view, permits not only milk and blood, but also permits human meat. This is their source that the meat of a human is permitted.

The second answer of the Maggid Mishneh is that the rule of kol hayotzei min hatamei, tamei only applies to something that is prohibited by a lo sa'asei. Something that is only prohibited by means of an asei does not have the ability to prohibit anything that comes out of it.

Some Acharonim explain the opinion of the Rambam based on the following Toras Kohanim in this week's parshah: The Toras Kohanim says that Adam ha'rishon was originally prohibited from eating any animals; he was only permitted to eat fruits and vegetables. After the mabul, Hashem permitted Noach to eat animals. Hashem says that the bnei Yisrael cannot eat any animal except only kosher animals. We see from this that every living thing was originally prohibited, and needs a specific heter to permit it to be eaten. Since the Torah never explicitly permitted human meat, it should remain forbidden.

Based on this the Acharonim answer another question. The Zera Avraham asks how Adam and Noach, prior to being permitted to eat animals, could bring animals as korbanos. After all, anything that is forbidden to be eaten cannot be brought as a korban. The Oneg Yom Tov answers that the prohibition to eat animals prior to the mabul (and the existing prohibition to eat humans today) was not forbidden as a non-kosher animal. Rather they were kosher animals that the people were prohibited to eat – similar to a fast day whereby people cannot eat but the food remains kosher. On a fast day one may bring korbanos even though he may not eat them at that time. Therefore, the animals were fit to be brought as korbanos even though they were not fit for consumption at that time.

This is in line with the Rambam's view that human meat is prohibited because of an asei. Since the Torah never permitted it, human meat remains prohibited as it always was. But that original prohibition did not render the item a non-kosher food. It only means that we cannot eat it.



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Foods that cure and Holocaust Remembrance Day starts April 7, 2013



  Radiate Love


Did you ever wish you could change someone's negative feelings toward you into positive ones? Consider the following story:

In the days of Rabbi Chaim of Volozhin, it occurred that a butcher was angry at the Rabbi of his city for rendering a decision that the meat of a cow he wanted to sell was not kosher. In his anger, he devised a scheme to murder the Rabbi. On a pretext, he had the Rabbi travel with him on a lonely road. Along the way, the butcher took out his sharp knife and wanted to kill the Rabbi.

At first the Rabbi pleaded with the butcher to have compassion on him. But this was to no avail. When the Rabbi saw that nothing he could say would make a difference, he started to mentally focus on all of the positive qualities and attributes of the butcher. Suddenly there was an amazing transformation. The butcher began to cry, kissed the Rabbi, and begged his forgiveness.

The lesson: Love others and they can't help but to love you!

Love Yehuda Lave


Holocaust Remembrance Day (Yom HaShoah) 2013 begins in the evening of

Sunday, April 7
and ends in the evening of
Monday, April 8

. Survivor who Defied Nazis Dies before Holocaust Day

by Maayana Miskin Survivor who Defied Nazis Dies before Yom Hashoa

This year's Holocaust Memorial Day will focus on the Warsaw Ghetto uprising, which took place 70 years ago. The uprising was the largest single revolt by Jews during the Holocaust.

Among those who were to be honored with lighting one of six memorial flames at the official state ceremony was Peretz Hochman, who fought in the Polish uprising in Warsaw that followed the ghetto uprising.

Peretz was born in Warsaw in 1927, and was named Pavel. He was the fourth of eight siblings.

When the Warsaw Ghetto was built his older brothers remained outside, while he and his parents and younger brother Zanek were trapped within. As the situation in the ghetto grew increasingly desperate, Peretz and Zanek managed to escape to the Polish part of the city and to pass themselves off as non-Jewish Poles.

The two sold cigarettes and newspapers and smuggled food and clothing to their parents. Their father Binyamin died of hunger despite their efforts, and their mother Miriam was shot and murdered in a Nazi operation in the ghetto in 1942.

When the Warsaw Ghetto uprising broke out in 1943 Zanek was in the ghetto. He was caught and taken to the train station to be deported along with thousands of others, but managed to escape to the Polish part of town, where he found Peretz.

On the eve of the Polish rebellion in Warsaw the next year, Peretz and Zanek joined the Polish underground.

"Volunteering for the Polish rebellion was a way of getting revenge on the Germans for my brother and I," Peretz later said. "Whenever they needed a volunteer for a difficult mission, I volunteered. The commanders held me up as an example of a dedicated soldier.

"All I wanted was to hurt the Germans… My life wasn't important to me. In a certain sense, something inside me was already dead, so I wasn't afraid of death," he said.

Peretz and Zanek were among those who survived the Polish rebellion. They were taken to a German POW camp disguised as Polish soldiers.

After the war Peretz was decorated for valor by the Polish army. He and Zanek returned to Warsaw, where they found their older brother Leon.

The brothers made their way to the land of Israel, then under the British Mandate. Peretz joined the kibbutz (agricultural cooperative) Shaar Hagolan. He fought in the War of Independence and was wounded.

Peretz passed away several days ago, shortly before he was to have lit the memorial flame. He is survived by widow Sima, three children and several grandchildren.

Sima will light the candle in his place.


When Danish researchers asked achy people to jazz up their diets with ginger, it eased muscle and joint pain, swelling and stiffness for up to 63 percent of them within two months. Experts credit ginger's potent compounds called gingerols, which prevent the production of pain-triggering hormones. The study-recommended dose: Add at least 1 teaspoon of dried ginger or 2 teaspoons of chopped ginger to meals daily.

Cure a toothache with cloves

Got a toothache and can't get to the dentist? Gently chewing on a clove can ease tooth pain and gum inflammation for two hours straight, say UCLA researchers. Experts point to a natural compound in cloves called eugenol, a powerful, natural anesthetic. Bonus: Sprinkling a ¼ teaspoon of ground cloves on meals daily may also protect your ticker. Scientists say this simple action helps stabilize blood sugar, plus dampen production of artery-clogging cholesterol in as little as three weeks.


Heal heartburn with cider vinegar
Sip 1 tablespoon of apple cider vinegar mixed with 8 ounces of water before every meal, and experts say you could shut down painful bouts of heartburn in as little as 24 hours. "Cider vinegar is rich in malic and tartaric acids, powerful digestive aids that speed the breakdown of fats and proteins so your stomach can empty quickly, before food washes up into the esophagus, triggering heartburn pain," explains Joseph Brasco, M.D., a gastroenterologist at the Center for Colon and Digestive Diseases in Huntsville, AL.

Erase earaches with garlic

Painful ear infections drive millions of Americans to doctors' offices every year. To cure one fast, just place two drops of warm garlic oil into your aching ear twice daily for five days. This simple treatment can clear up ear infections faster than prescription meds, say experts at the University of New Mexico School of Medicine. Scientists say garlic's active ingredients (germanium, selenium, and sulfur compounds) are naturally toxic to dozens of different pain-causing bacteria. To whip up your own garlic oil gently simmer three cloves of crushed garlic in a half a cup of extra virgin olive oil for two minutes, strain, then refrigerate for up to two weeks, suggests Teresa Graedon, Ph.D., co-author of the book, Best Choices From The People's Pharmacy. For an optimal experience, warm this mix slightly before using so the liquid will feel soothing in your ear canal.

Chase away joint and headache pain with cherries

Latest studies show that at least one in four women is struggling with arthritis, gout or chronic headaches. If you're one of them, a daily bowl of cherries could ease your ache, without the stomach upset so often triggered by today's painkillers, say researchers at East Lansing 's Michigan State University . Their research reveals that anthocyanins, the compounds that give cherries their brilliant red color, are anti-inflammatories 10 times stronger than ibuprofen and aspirin. "Anthocyanins help shut down the powerful enzymes that kick-start tissue inflammation, so they can prevent, as well as treat, many different kinds of pain," explains Muraleedharan Nair, Ph.D., professor of food science at Michigan State University . His advice: Enjoy 20 cherries (fresh, frozen or dried) daily, then continue until your pain disappears.

Fight tummy troubles with fish

Indigestion, irritable bowel syndrome, inflammatory bowel diseases...if your belly always seems to be in an uproar, try munching 18 ounces of fish weekly to ease your misery. Repeated studies show that the fatty acids in fish, called EPA and DHA, can significantly reduce intestinal inflammation, cramping and belly pain and, in some cases, provide as much relief as corticosteroids and other prescription meds. "EPA and DHA are powerful, natural, side effect-free anti-inflammatories, that can dramatically improve the function of the entire gastrointestinal tract," explains biological chemist Barry Sears, Ph.D., president of the Inflammation Research Foundation in Marblehead , MA . For best results, look for oily fish like salmon, sardines, tuna, mackerel, trout and herring.

Prevent PMS with yogurt

Up to 80 percent of women will struggle with premenstrual syndrome and its uncomfortable symptoms, report Yale researchers. The reason: Their nervous systems are sensitive to the ups and downs in estrogen and progesterone that occur naturally every month. But snacking on 2 cups of yogurt a day can slash these symptoms by 48 percent, say researchers at New York 's Columbia University . "Yogurt is rich in calcium, a mineral that naturally calms the nervous system, preventing painful symptoms even when hormones are in flux," explains Mary Jane Minkin, M.D., a professor of gynecology at Yale University .

Tame chronic pain with turmeric

Studies show turmeric, a popular East Indian spice, is actually three times more effective at easing pain than aspirin, ibuprofen or naproxen, plus it can help relieve chronic pain for 50 percent of people struggling with arthritis and even fibromyalgia, according to Cornell researchers. That's because turmeric's active ingredient, curcumin, naturally shuts down cyclooxygenase 2, an enzyme that churns out a stream of pain-producing hormones, explains nutrition researcher Julian Whitaker, M.D. and author of the book, Reversing Diabetes. The study-recommended dose: Sprinkle 1/4 teaspoon of this spice daily onto any rice, poultry, meat or vegetable dish.

End endometrial pain with oats

The ticket to soothing endometriosis pain could be a daily bowl of oatmeal. Endometriosis occurs when little bits of the uterine lining detach and grow outside of the uterus. Experts say these migrating cells can turn menstruation into a misery, causing so much inflammation that they trigger severe cramping during your period, plus a heavy ache that drags on all month long. Fortunately, scientists say opting for a diet rich in oats can help reduce endometrial pain for up to 60 percent of women within six months. That's because oats don't contain gluten, a trouble-making protein that triggers inflammation in many women, making endometriosis difficult to bear, explains Peter Green, M.D., professor of medicine at Colombia University .

Soothe foot pain with salt

Experts say at least six million Americans develop painful ingrown toenails each year. But regularly soaking ingrown nails in warm salt water baths can cure these painful infections within four days, say scientists at California 's Stanford University . The salt in the mix naturally nixes inflammation, plus it's anti-bacterial, so it quickly destroys the germs that cause swelling and pain. Just mix 1 teaspoon of salt into each cup of water, heat to the warmest temperature that you can comfortably stand, and then soak the affected foot area for 20 minutes twice daily, until your infection subsides.

Prevent digestive upsets with pineapple

Got gas? One cup of fresh pineapple daily can cut painful bloating within 72 hours, say researchers at California 's Stanford University . That's because pineapple is natually packed with proteolytic enzymes, digestive aids that help speed the breakdown of pain-causing proteins in the stomach and small intestine, say USDA researchers.

Relax painful muscles with peppermint

Suffering from tight, sore muscles? Stubborn knots can hang around for months if they aren't properly treated, says naturopath Mark Stengler, N.D., author of the book, The Natural Physician's Healing Therapies. His advice: Three times each week, soak in a warm tub scented with 10 drops of peppermint oil. The warm water will relax your muscles, while the peppermint oil will naturally soothe your nerves -- a combo that can ease muscle cramping 25 percent more effectively than over-the-counter painkillers, and cut the frequency of future flare-ups in half, says Stengler.

Give your back some TLC with grapes

Got an achy back? Grapes could be the ticket to a speedy recovery. Recent studies at Ohio State University suggest eating a heaping cup of grapes daily can relax tight blood vessels, significantly improving blood flow to damaged back tissues (and often within three hours of enjoying the first bowl). That's great news because your back's vertebrae and shock-absorbing discs are completely dependent on nearby blood vessels to bring them healing nutrients and oxygen, so improving blood flow is essential for healing damaged back tissue, says Stengler.

Wash away pain injuries with water

Whether it's your feet, your knees or your shoulders that are throbbing, experts at New York 's Manhattan College , say you could kick-start your recovery in one week just by drinking eight 8-ounce glasses of water daily. Why? Experts say water dilutes, and then helps flush out, histamine, a pain-triggering compound produced by injured tissues. "Plus water is a key building block of the cartilage that cushions the ends of your bones, your joints' lubricating fluid, and the soft discs in your spine," adds Susan M. Kleiner, Ph.D., author of the book, The Good Mood Diet. "And when these tissues are well-hydrated, they can move and glide over each other without causing pain." One caveat: Be sure to measure your drinking glasses to find out how large they really are before you start sipping, she says. Today's juice glasses often hold more than 12 ounces, which means five servings could be enough to meet your daily goal.

Heal sinus problems with horseradish

Latest studies show sinusitis is the nation's number one chronic health problem. And this condition doesn't just spur congestion and facial pain, it also makes sufferers six times more likely to feel achy all-over. Horseradish to the rescue! According to German researchers, this eye-watering condiment naturally revs up blood flow to the sinus cavities, helping to open and drain clogged sinuses and heal sinus infections more quickly than decongestant sprays do. The study-recommended dose: One teaspoon twice daily (either on its own, or used as a sandwich or meat topping) until symptoms clear.

Beat bladder infections with blueberries

Eating 1 cup of blueberries daily, whether you opt for them fresh, frozen or in juice form, can cut your risk of a urinary tract infection (UTIs) by 60 percent, according to researchers at New Jersey's Rutgers University. That's because blueberries are loaded with tannins, plant compounds that wrap around problem-causing bacteria in the bladder, so they can't get a toehold and create an infection, explains Amy Howell, Ph.D. a scientist at Rutgers University .

Heal mouth sores with honey

Dab painful canker and cold sores with unpasteurized honey four times daily until these skin woes disappear, and they'll heal 43 percent faster than if you use a prescription cream, say researchers at the Dubai Specialized Medical Center in the United Arab Emirates . Raw honey's natural enzymes zap inflammation, destroy invading viruses and speed the healing of damaged tissues, say the study authors.

Fight breast pain with flax

In one recent study, adding 3 tablespoons of ground flax to their daily diet eased breast soreness for one in three women within 12 weeks. Scientists credit flax's phytoestrogens, natural plant compounds that prevent the estrogen spikes that can trigger breast pain. More good news: You don't have to be a master baker to sneak this healthy seed into your diet. Just sprinkle ground flax on oatmeal, yogurt, applesauce or add it to smoothies and veggie dips.

Cure migraines with coffee

Prone to migraines? Try muscling-up your painkiller with a coffee chaser. Whatever over-the-counter pain med you prefer, researchers at the National Headache Foundation say washing it down with a strong 12- ounce cup of coffee will boost the effectiveness of your medication by 40 percent or more. Experts say caffeine stimulates the stomach lining to absorb painkillers more quickly and more effectively.

Tame leg cramps with tomato juice

At least one in five people regularly struggle with leg cramps. The culprit? Potassium deficiencies, which occur when this mineral is flushed out by diuretics, caffeinated beverages or heavy perspiration during exercise. But sip 10 ounces of potassium-rich tomato juice daily and you'll not only speed your recovery, you'll reduce your risk of painful cramp flare-ups in as little as 10 days, say UCLA researchers.




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Thursday, April 4, 2013

Rabbi Lau's powerful words to President Obama, Video and enter people's reality





 Enter People's Reality


Enter the reality of other people. Put yourself in their shoes. See life through their lenses. This leads to a sense of identification and oneness, and is literally the fulfillment of the mitzvah to "love others as yourself.

Of course, if someone's reality is counterproductive, don't stay there for too long! And the same applies to your own. You can't always change your external reality, but you do have the power to upgrade your internal reality.

Think of someone you have a difficult time understanding or being empathic with. The next time you talk to that person, try to enter his reality and see the differ

Love Rabbi Yehuda Lave



 Rabbi Lau's powerful words to President Obama, Video





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Wednesday, April 3, 2013

BUGATTI for the car people and how to become Holy!!




Focus On The Present Benefit

If someone wronged you or quarreled with you in the past, try to change that dynamic in the present. Right now -- can you do acts of kindness for him? Can you gain from his wisdom or experience? Can you have a worthwhile relationship?

If the answer is yes to any of these questions, then disregard your past experiences, and deal with this person in the present.



Love Yehuda Lave


All of us want to be our best!! Here is:
How to Become Holy!

Published: Tuesday, April 2, 2013 08:59:48 PM

by Rabbi Efriam Sprecher

"Speak to the Children of Israel and say to them: You shall be holy for I, Hashem your G-d, am holy" (Vayikra 19:2). Rashi comments on this verse that being holy means to separate your self from sexual immorality. But that is just the starting point of attaining a state of being holy.

In the non-Jewish world, to sanctify one's self, or to be holy, means to cut yourself off from the animal instinct of the human being. Procreation and raising a family are prohibited for priests in the Catholic faith, through celibacy. Other Christian sects afflict themselves by fasting and self flagellation in order to attain a state of sanctity and holiness. However in Judaism, to sanctify one's self and one's life requires us to take part in every aspect of life. The act of marital relations, business, relaxation, eating, drinking etc. can all be infused and elevated to a state of sanctity.

This requires that we use the tools given to each of us by G-d and follow the instructions found in His Torah. It compels us to give consciously and purposefully every facet of life it's proper due.

To sum up, to be holy means to be a human being, a creature created in the image of G-d, for the purpose of elevating every aspect of human existence with the imprint of the Divine image. Thus, there are mitzvos which deal with the physical body, such as Tefillin, immersion in a Mikvah, and Brit Mila.

There are other mitzvos that deal with our usage of the plants and animals found in our environment. These include the mitzvos of Kashrut, the Four Species of plants used on the Festival of Succot, and the agricultural mitzvos such as Shmitah. Similarly, there are mitzvos which deal with business, and how much Tzadaka to give and under what conditions, and so on.

Therefor, the sanctification of one's self and one's life requires you not to run away from life, but to master and control it. The goal and purpose of the Torah is to elevate and sanctify even the most mundane and secular aspects of life.

That is true holiness!