Monday, May 6, 2013

fundamentalists present a false image of the 'real Jew'



Courage Builds Self-Respect

Courage builds self-respect. When you sacrifice for principles and ideas, you increase your self-respect. When you face a painful situation and react with dignity, you increase your self-respect.

When you say, "No," to temptation even though others will try to persuade you to say, "Yes," you increase your self-respect. When you don't allow opposition to stop you from doing what you know must be done, you increase your self-respect.

In short, every act of courage makes you feel better about yourself.

Love Yehuda Lave

fundamentalists present a false image of the 'real Jew'

By failing to acknowledge modern values, spirituality and science, Haredi-Fundamentalist Judaism excludes the beliefs and practices of most 21st century Jews.

By | Jan.11, 2012 | 2:35 PM | 13




The recent clamor over Jewish fundamentalism in Israel calls for those of us who practice a consciously non-fundamentalist Judaism to state proudly and emphatically how we understand our religion, and why we believe what we believe.
Jay Michaelson thoughtfully pointed out in a recent column in "The Jewish Daily Forward" that many Jews – and certainly many non-Jews – think, at least unconsciously that "Haredim are the 'real Jews'" because they appear to be the most outwardly and unabashedly religious, the most committed, and the most traditional. In much the same way that many people (wrongly) see fundamentalist Muslims as the most genuine representation of Islam, many perceive Judaism to be at odds with modernity because they view Haredi-Fundamentalist Judaism as authentic.
For many Jews, this seems to present a choice between a religious tradition that rejects widely-celebrated modern values like liberty, democracy, and equality, or a way of life that embraces freedom and egalitarianism. Not surprisingly, given this choice, most Jews, despite their positive feelings toward their Jewish identities, reject their inherited religious tradition. They proudly identify themselves as Jews, but defer authority on Jewish religious matters to the Jews they perceive to be "authentic" for seemingly refusing to compromise their faith.
Relegating Jewish religious authenticity to Haredi-Fundamentalist Jews enables Jews to satisfy their minds, but it leaves many feeling spiritually empty. They want no part of a Jewish religion that looks and feels Haredi-Fundamentalist, but retain a yearning for the transcendent. This is one reason Jews increasingly separate "spirituality" from "religion." Studies show that most Jews believe in God, the importance of personal worship, and the urgency of a divinely ordained morality. But because these Jews see Jewish religious practice as authentic only if it is Haredi-Fundamentalist, they reject organized Jewish religious practice. Some turn to Eastern traditions like Buddhism or Yoga, which they perceive to be in greater harmony with modernity. Others simply choose to dismiss their spiritual urges altogether, concluding that religion of necessity requires a rejection of their brains.
Take the relationship between Judaism and the sciences. Haredi-Fundamentalist Jews reject science except when scientific discovery supports their understanding of the Bible. For Haredi-Fundamentalist Jews, God's Torah is flawless, the revealed word of a perfect God (Psalm 19:8). They believe that if science contradicts Torah, then science has made the error. For example, in the Haredi-Fundamentalist view, the world is only 5,772 years old. Archaeologists using carbon dating, however, have uncovered dinosaur fossils over 200 million years old. Seeing this apparent contradiction, some Haredi-Fundamentalist Jews argue that God has put dinosaur fossils in the ground simply to test our faith.
Most Jews, guided by every rational impulse we possess, rebuff that view. We accept scientific consensus in both the natural and the social sciences. We unapologetically treat infections with antibiotics and believe the earth revolves around the sun. For many Jews, though, this means that if science contradicts the Torah, then one ought to reject Torah.
But the choice between science and religion is a false one. Firstly, it assumes Haredi-Fundamentalist interpretations of Torah are authentic and authoritative. When Torah is read through a fundamentalist lens, it undoubtedly contradicts modern science. But the rabbis of the Talmud remind us that there are many ways to understand the Torah (Sanhedrin 34a), and that the Torah was never intended to be read without the aid of different interpretative lenses (Midrash Eliyahu Zuta).
Secondly, it wrongly assumes that all reality can be understood through the lens of science. Science is primarily descriptive, not prescriptive. It can help us understand the nature of matter and use that understanding to develop an atomic bomb, but cannot with integrity tell us when, where, or whether to use it. Physicist Sean Carroll argues, "Morality is not part of science, however much we would like it to be." Good/bad and right/wrong are not scientific categories; they cannot be decided simply by studying observable facts about the world.
On the other hand, science can and does yield spiritual insight, and our beliefs can and should be shaped and reformed by scientific discovery. Religion helps form our scientific agenda by shaping our assumptions and questions about reality and providing us a context for organizing and interpreting our scientific discoveries. Scientific discovery, by deepening our understanding of reality, forces us to alter our religious beliefs and cultural structures. Science, then, needs religion, and religion needs science, for both constitute integrated elements of a holistic understanding of reality.
Jews and non-Jews need to know that the Haredi-Fundamentalist community does not represent true Judaism or hold a monopoly on Jewish authenticity. There are decidedly non-fundamentalist approaches to Judaism that are viable, vibrant, and valid. The Jewish future can only and must only be won by a Judaism that integrates religious and scientific truths, a Judaism that values both tradition and modernity.
Michael Knopf is the Assistant Rabbi of Har Zion Temple in Penn Valley, Pennsylvania, and a recent graduate of the Ziegler School of Rabbinic Studies in Los Angeles
The point this article leaves out is that Orthodox Judaism includes the view that the bible does include science in its interpretation. I studied with Rabbi Schroeder a Mit Professor of Physics and a Jerusalem Rabbi, who teaches that Einstein's theory of relativity and a time line of the world being 9 billion years old is perfectly consistent with  the words of the Torah.
One does not have to chose being spiritually and religion.This fact is little known by the majority of JEWS. It is graduate Judaism past what most Jews learned in kindergarten. As the article states however, many Jews never progress beyond what they learned as a child and it makes sense to reject what they see as non-spiritual.
One of my goals of life is open the eyes of the world to the fact you do not have to make a choice between walking in G-d's ways and religion.

Love Rabbi Yehuda Lave




Sunday, May 5, 2013

AUDI CES 2013 ..The car that parks itself--literally and Watch for action in Syria



Quitters can be Winners


"Quitters are losers!"

This is frequently true, but not always. Of course it's a mistake to quit prematurely. But at times, quitters will be winners since they devote their new found time, money, and energy on a project that seems more likely to succeed.

Weigh the entire picture to figure out your best course of action. But don't let fear of quitting lead you in the wrong direction.
Love Yehuda Lave




   AUDI CES 2013 ... What will they dream up next!!!
                          This is way too cool!!! You're not gonna believe what you are watching.  What will they dream up next ???

Obama- Israeli Action on Syria: "Justifiably Have to Guard" Against Red Line Violations, "We Coordinate Closely With the Israelis"

President Barack Obama today reiterated support for actions that Israel is taking to maintain its long-established red line against the transfer of Syrian advanced weapons to terrorist groups. His statements were in reference to reports that Israel on Friday struck a Syrian missile shipment. They come amid reports that Jerusalem on Sunday conducted additional strikes against Syrian military infrastructure.



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Friday, May 3, 2013

A bit of magic and Brighten the Day




Spread A Little Cheer


When you are cheerful, you spread your good feelings to others. This enables them to gain from all of the benefits of being in a good state.

Remember how you felt when you were spontaneously cheerful. See what you saw. Hear what you heard. And feel what you felt.

Access this state whenever you interact with people - and they'll appreciate it!
Love Yehuda Lave



Magic from You Tube


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Thursday, May 2, 2013

China and ways to wisdom in handling Social pressure




State your Goal when Impatient


Develop the habit of repeating, "This, too, will increase my patience."

How often will you say this? The more impatient you are when you start this process, the more frequently you will find this beneficial. The problem itself will be the source of the solution.
Love Yehuda Lave

Ways of  Handling Social Pressure

by Rabbi Noah Weinberg
Don't spend your life trying to impress others. Because even if you convince others that you're great, have you convinced yourself?

I met a young man who always talked with his head tilted a bit sideways, because somebody once told him he had the profile of a famous actor. Most people didn't think he had an actor's profile; they thought he had a screw loose.
This is what happens when making an impression on others determine our actions. It's human nature to seek recognition for our achievements. Whatever we're proud of, we want others to know about it, too. Next time you're in a conversation, see how long it takes the other person (and yourself!) to start mentioning personal accomplishments.
Why are we so eager to impress people? Humans are hungry for meaning. But sometimes we don't reach the level we ought to. So we need to compensate with an artificial boost from others.
If people say that you're great, you can become convinced. A movie star who believes his fan mail is in trouble. Because he's built a house of cards. And when he falls, he'll fall hard.
Chasing after honor is a sign that you don't sufficiently respect yourself. It's like saying, "I might not amount to much, but if I can make others think I do, then I'm worth something." But it's not true. It's chasing "fool's gold" -- yellow and glittery, but worthless. Deep down you feel like a fraud.
Way #36 is mit'rahek min hakavod -- literally "keep far from honor." It teaches us not to look to others for recognition, but to find it within ourselves. Figure out what you think is meaningful in life, and use that to drive you to greatness. People who are satisfied with themselves don't need public recognition to reassure their worth.
This is a classic body-soul conflict. The body is happy with the illusion that others think we're important. But the soul looks for what is truly meaningful. The body says: "Let's be important for the moment." The soul says: "Let's make it real." The body balks at the challenges involved. The soul knows the right thing to do.

BE FREE OF OPINIONS
If you depend upon the opinions of others to determine how good you are, then you become like a leaf in the wind, fluttering in whichever direction the fads of the time blow you.
If you have confidence in your own worth, you'll be better able to follow opinions that are your own and not society's.
God calls the Jews a "stiff-necked people." Being stiff-necked is both good and bad. It's bad because you are stubborn and unwilling to change. But it's good because in the face of fads and trends, you stick to your guns. If the Jewish people were not stiff-necked, we'd never have survived till today.
We all want success and greatness, and we should seek it. But don't live for others. Don't base your career choice, lifestyle or even leisure time solely on what gives you status. If you want to be great, then do something great. Not because it will earn you respect in the eyes of others, but because you want to live a meaningful life and fulfill your potential -- regardless of the attention it will draw.
Don't worry. When you follow the straight path, even though others might initially reject you, you can go to sleep knowing that your conscience in clear -- and knowing that in the end, truth will prevail.

EXAMINE YOUR MOTIVES
Make sure that your choices are what's best for you, not based on impressing others. Always ask yourself: "What is my real motive?" For example, if you're planning a European vacation, is it because you really want to visit Europe? Or because you hope to impress everyone with new tales of adventure?
Here are some exercises you can do:
  1. Make a list of what people typically seek admiration for -- wealth, strength, skills, education, intelligence, career, health, athletics. Are there other, more important things that should be on this list?

  • Make a list of things you do to impress others. What is it about these that make you feel so important?
  • Ask yourself why you feel the need to impress other people. What do you ultimately hope to accomplish?


  • ARE YOU IMPRESSED?
    Some people are constantly boasting about their achievements, crying out: "Take notice. I am somebody!"
    Judaism says that anyone who does a good deed and boasts about it, loses the reward for that deed. Suppose you find out about a widow and her children who have barely enough to eat. So you bring them food, provide support, and set them on the road to financial independence. The moment you start boasting about it, you've taken a beautiful act, and used it for self-aggrandizement.
    People are suspicious of those desperate for recognition. That's why honor is one of those strange things that the more you run after it, the less you get.
    Judaism says that when you do a good deed, the only ones who need to know about it are you and God. Do kindness anonymously. Don't worry. God will find a way to make sure you're amply rewarded.

    CAST IN THE ROLE
    One of the most destructive ways of trying to impress others is by role-playing. We act out characters that we think others will like. Did you ever notice how your personality can change in the presence of different people? To those at the health club, we appear athletic. To our friends, we are fun. To our boss, we are serious. We may go through 10 or 20 roles per day!
    Take a look at the different ways you project yourself, and try to describe them. You might even find yourself playing a variety of contradictory roles. This is dangerous, because by casually switching roles, we can lose sight of who we really are.
    Beware of media pressure to conform to a certain model. Imagine the subconscious desire to be the Marlboro Man! Get in touch and decide who you really want to be. Ask yourself: "What role am I playing? Is that really who I want to be?"
    Who is the real you?

    POSITIVE ROLES
    The capacity for role-playing has a positive side: it can draw out potential that we may not otherwise access. Because when we act outwardly in a positive manner, it awakens our inner selves.
    Choose a role that would be good for you, and let it start affecting your daily behavior. Let's say you want to become genuinely happy. So start playing the role of the cheerful, smiling, friendly person who likes being with people. Acting the part will train the body to become attuned -- and the person you are "playing" eventually becomes the real you!
    Perhaps you'll ask: Is there any difference between deceiving others and deceiving yourself? The answer is that role-playing to bring out potential is a positive exercise, while role-playing to bring out compliments is not. The litmus test is when trying to deceive others, you'll end up feeling rotten afterwards. But if you're acting in order to improve your character, you'll end up feeling better about yourself.
    One more positive application of role-playing: Strategize how to act in advance of a challenging situation. For example, if you're going to deliver a speech in public, practice in front of the mirror to get it just right. Or, if you tend to argue with your boss, role-play on how to diffuse the tension. It will save you and others a lot of suffering.

    WHY IS "HANDLING SOCIAL PRESSURE" A WAY TO WISDOM?
    • Don't get trapped in the obsessive need for recognition.
    • Seeking the approval of others harms you, because it keeps you from the real work of becoming great.
    • If you need others to verify your significance, it's time to examine your self-esteem.
    • When you act to impress others, you feel the emptiness inside.
    • Ask yourself: Given the choice, would I rather be famous-and-miserable, or satisfied-and-unknown?
    • When you get the urge to toot your own horn, ask yourself: Who am I trying to impress?
    • Even if you convince people that you're the greatest person in the world, have you convinced yourself?
    Author Biography:
    Rabbi Noah Weinberg was the dean and founder of Aish HaTorah International


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    Wednesday, May 1, 2013

    The New Holocaust Discoveries and God spelled backward is Dog



    Use Joy To overcome Impatience

    A master at accessing and creating joyous states will find it easier to master patience. While others stew and fret over delays and the need to wait, the joyous person will use the Creator's gift of a brain to experience positive thoughts and feelings.

    Love Yehuda Lave

     
    The New Holocaust Discoveries

    The New Holocaust Discoveries

    With more than 42,000 ghettos and concentration camps scattered throughout Europe, almost everyone had to know what was happening.

    by Rabbi Benjamin Blech


    The latest revelation about the Holocaust stuns even the scholars who thought they already knew everything about the horrific details of Germany's program of genocide against the Jewish people.
    It's taken more than 70 years to finally know the full facts. And what is almost beyond belief is that what really happened goes far beyond what anyone could ever have imagined.
    For the longest time we have spoken of the tragedy of 6 million Jews. It was a number that represented the closest approximation we could come to the victims of Hitler's plan for a Final Solution. Those who sought to diminish the tragedy claimed 6 million was a gross exaggeration. Others went further and denied the historicity of the Holocaust itself, absurdly claiming the Jews fabricated their extermination to gain sympathy for the Zionist cause.
    But now we know the truth.
    Whatever we imagined was in fact much worse.
    The unspeakable crime of the 20th century, more than the triumph of evil, was the sin of the "innocent" bystander.
    It wasn't just the huge killing centers whose very names – Auschwitz, Bergen-Belsen, Buchenwald, Dachau, Majdanek, Belzec, Ravensbruck, Sobibar, Treblinka – bring to mind the ghastly images by now so familiar to us. It wasn't just the Warsaw ghetto. It wasn't just the famous sites we've all by now heard of that deservedly live on in everlasting infamy.
    Researchers at United States Holocaust Memorial Museum have just released documentation that astounds even the most informed scholars steeped in the previously known statistics of German atrocities. Here is some of what has now been conclusively discovered:
    • There were more than 42,500 Nazi ghettos and camps throughout Europe from 1933 to 1945.
    • There were 30,000 slave labor camps; 1,150 Jewish ghettos; 980 concentration camps; 1000 prisoner of war camps; 500 brothels filled with sex slaves; and thousands of other camps used for euthanizing the elderly and infirm, performing forced abortions, "Germanizing" prisoners or transporting victims to killing centers.
    • The best estimate using current information available is 15to 20 million people who died or were imprisoned in sites controlled by the Germans throughout the European continent.
    Simply put, in the words of Hartmut Berghoff, Director of the German Historical Institute in Washington, "The numbers are so much higher than what we originally thought; we knew before how horrible life in the camps and ghettos was, but the actual numbers are unbelievable."
    And what makes this revelation so important is that it forces us to acknowledge a crucial truth about the Holocaust that many people have tried to ignore or to minimize – a truth that has profound contemporary significance: The unspeakable crime of the 20th century, more than the triumph of evil, was the sin of the "innocent" bystander.
    For years our efforts to understand the Holocaust focused on the perpetrators. We looked for explanations for the madness of Mengele, the obsessive hatred of Hitler, the impassive cruelty of Eichmann. We sought answers to how it was possible for the criminal elements, the sadists and the mentally unbalanced to achieve the kind of power that made the mass killings feasible.
    That was because we had no idea of the real extent of the horror. With more than 42,000 ghettos and concentration camps scattered throughout the length and breadth of a supposedly civilized continent, there's no longer any way to avoid the obvious conclusion. The cultured, the educated, the enlightened, the liberal, the refined, the sophisticated, the urbane – all of them share in the shame of a world that lost its moral compass and willingly acceded to the victory of evil.
    The numbers negate the possibility for collective ignorance.
    "We had no idea what was happening" needs to be clearly identified as "the great lie" of the years of Nazi power. The harsh truth is that almost everyone had to know. The numbers negate the possibility for collective ignorance. And still the killings did not stop, the torture did not cease, the concentration camps were not closed, the crematoria continued their barbaric task.
    The "decent" people were somehow able to rationalize their silence.
    Just last year Mary Fulbrook, a distinguished scholar of German history, in "A Small Town Near Auschwitz "wrote a richly and painfully detailed examination of those Germans who, after the war, successfully cast themselves in the role of innocent bystanders.
    "These people have almost entirely escaped the familiar net of 'perpetrators, victims and bystanders'; yet they were functionally crucial to the eventual possibility of implementing policies of mass murder. They may not have intended or wanted to contribute to this outcome; but, without their attitudes, mentalities, and actions, it would have been virtually impossible for murder on this scale to have taken place in the way that it did. The concepts of perpetrator and bystander need to be amended, expanded, rendered more complex, as our attention and focus shifts to those involved in upholding an ultimately murderous system."
    Mary Fulbrook singled out for censure those who lived near Auschwitz. But that was before we learned that Auschwitz was replicated many thousands of times over throughout the continent in ways that could not have gone unnoticed by major parts of the populace. Millions of people were witnesses to small towns like Auschwitz in their own backyards.
    And so Elie Wiesel of course was right. The insight that most powerfully needs to be grasped when we reflect upon the Holocaust's message must be that, "The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it's indifference."
    That remains our greatest challenge today. If we dare to hope for the survival of civilization we had better pray that the pessimists are wrong when they claim that the only thing we learn from history is that mankind never learns from history.
    Now after that piece you need a little cheering up so:

     Dog Logic


    The reason
    a dog has so many friends is that he wags his tail instead of his
    tongue.

    -Anonymous



     





    There
    is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face.


    -Ben Williams





    A dog is the only thing
    on earth that loves you more than he loves himself.

    -Josh
    Billings



     





    The average
    dog is a nicer person than the average person.

    -Andy
    Rooney



     





    Anybody who
    doesn't know what soap tastes like never washed a dog.

    - Franklin P.
    Jones



     





    If
    your dog is fat, you aren't getting enough exercise


    -Unknown



     




     

    My dog is worried about the
    economy because Alpo is up to $3.00 a can. That's almost $21.00 in dog
    money.

    -Joe Weinstein

     





    If you pick
    up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is
    the principal difference between a dog and a man.

    -Mark
    Twain




     





    Dogs are
    not our whole life, but they make our lives whole.

    -Roger
    Caras

     


     
      
     

    If you think dogs can't count,
    try putting three dog biscuits in your pocket and then give him only two
    of them.

     




    Tuesday, April 30, 2013

    Sixty Minute Show on Tel Aviv and test your brain



    Sixty Minute Show on Tel Aviv

    http://www.cbsnews.com/video/watch/?id=7409182n&tag=api





    Test Your Brain 
    This is really cool. The second one is amazing so please read all the way though.  

                                  
      
    ALZHEIMERS
    ALZHEIMER'S EYE TEST    < /DIV>

    Count every '
     F ' in the following text: 

    FINISHED FILES ARE THE RE
    SULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTI
    FIC STUDY COMBINED WITH
    THE EXPERIENCE OF YEARS...
     

    (SEE BELOW)

    HOW MANY ?
    WRONG, THERE ARE 
    6 -- no joke.
    READ IT AGAIN !
    Really, go Back and Try to find the 6 F's before you scroll down. 


    The reasoning behind is further down. 

    The brain cannot process 'OF'.
      
     
    Incredible or what? Go back and look again!!
    Anyone who counts all 6 'F's' on the first go is a genius.   


                      

    Three is normal, four is quite rare. 

    Send this to your friends.
    It will drive them crazy.!
    And keep them occupied
    For several minutes..!
     
     

     
      
    look at the spinning woman and if she is turning right your right side of your brain is working . If she is turning left your left side of your brain is working . If she turns both ways for you then you have a 160 or better IQ 
     

    More Brain Stuff . .  From Cambridge University .. 


    Olny srmat poelpe can raed tihs.
     
    I cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty  uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig  to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it de osn't mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoatnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit a porbelm. 
     Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Amzanig huh? yaeh and I awlyas tghuhot slpeling was ipmorantt! if you can raed tihs psas it on  !!   








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    Monday, April 29, 2013

    Watch out for the bears and counter sadness with a treat





    Counter Sadness With A Treat


    Be aware of what situations and behaviors give you pleasure. When you feel excessively sad and cannot change your attitude, make a conscious effort to take some action that might alleviate your sadness.

    If you anticipate feeling sad, prepare a list of things that might make you feel better. It could be talking to a specific enthusiastic individual, running, taking a walk in a quiet area, looking at pictures of family, listening to music, or reading inspiring words, or having a food you like, or getting a haircut.

    While our attitude is a major factor in sadness, lack of positive external situations and events play an important role in how we feel.
    Love Yehuda Lave

    This is hilarious. Worried about squirrels getting
     into  your bird feeder??









     What the hell is that line made of??
    Only in Canada would you see a sign like this! 
    Read the whole sign
    .  Fort Steele is near
    Cranbrook .....

     



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    Sunday, April 28, 2013

    CHURCH and Synagogue SERVICES of THE FUTURE




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    Weigh Insults Impartially



    It is easy to be objective about others and understand that they should overlook insults: "So what if someone said this or that remark?"

    View insults directed to you in the same manner. Ask yourself, "How would I consider this if it was said to someone else?"

    Yes, it is difficult to ignore insults, but we have an obligation to work on ourselves not to let things bother us.
    Love Yehuda Lave


    CHURCH and Synagogue SERVICES of THE FUTURE

     
    PASTOR: "Praise the Lord!"
    CONGREGATION: "Hallelujah!"
    PASTOR: "Can we please turn on our tablet, PC, iPad, smart phone, and Kindle Bibles to 1 Cor 13:13.
    And please switch on your Bluetooth to download the sermon."
    P-a-u-s-e......

    "Now, Let us pray committing this week into God's hands.
    Open your Apps, BBM, Twitter and Facebook, and chat with God?"


    S-i-l-e-n-c-e


    "As we take our Sunday tithes and offerings, please have your credit and debit cards ready."
    "You can log on to the church wi-fi using the password 'Lord909887. ' "
    The ushers will circulate mobile card swipe machines among the worshipers:
    1. Those who prefer to make electronic fund transfers are directed to computers and laptops at the rear of the church.
    2. Those who prefer to use iPads can open them.
    3. Those who prefer telephone banking, take out your cellphones to transfer your contributions to the church account.
    The holy atmosphere of the Church becomes truly electrified as ALL the smart phones, iPads, PCs and laptops beep and flicker!
    Final Blessing and Closing Announcements...
    1. This week's ministry cell meetings will be held on the various Facebook group pages where the usual group chatting takes place. Please log in and don't miss out.
    2. Thursday's Bible study will be held live on Skype at 1900hrs GMT. Please don't miss out.
    3. You can follow your Pastor on Twitter this weekend for counseling and prayers.
    4. God bless you and have nice day.
    The Epitome  of Church Service

    May Our LORD and SAVIOR Forgive us



     
    This is the future except at Orthodox Jewish Saturday services--WE DON"T USE ELECTRICITY ON SATURDAY.


     



     


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    Friday, April 26, 2013

    Fwd: YouTube - I'm Alive! and Choose your words carefully




    Choose your Words Carefully

    "Death and life are in the power of the tongue" (Proverbs 18:21).

    If you were writing a newspaper article, you'd be sure to choose your words carefully. You'd even ask others to help edit what you wrote.

    It is equally crucial to watch what you say when speaking to your husband or wife or child. Your words to your spouse or child can create feelings of joy, love, closeness, gratitude, and hopefully even radiant bliss. Your words can console, comfort, inspire, motivate, elevate.

    Other words can create feelings of pain, distress, and anger.

    Choose carefully.

    Love Yehuda Lave

    “Property is the fruit of labor -- property is desirable -- is a positive good in the world, That some should be rich, shows that others may become rich, and hence is just encouragement to industry and enterprise.”

    --President Lincoln, in a March 21, 1864 letter






    YouTube - I'm Alive! Celine  Dion (a top American woman singer) celebrates life with an inspirational slide show and a beautiful song


    Kislev 13, 5770 · November 30, 2009
    Dripping Water: Gentle Parenting

    Dripping water. That's how a parent has to speak: like a slow and constant drip.

    Think of the child as a crop. There are different ways of watering crops. You can pour water on them with rotary sprinklers, a whirling deluge; or you can conserve your energy and work on the roots, gently, through a network of connections called drip irrigation, which was invented here in Israel. You can drip on your children.

    And one day they will grow in the direction you have guided them.

    I learned this concept of gentle parenting recently when a woman told me something very important, something I wish I had known when I was parenting little kids. But it is still relevant for parenting older kids:

    Think of kids as a crop You just keep saying it. Whatever it is. Ad nauseum. You just keep saying the same thing. The kids don't have to buy it. They don't have to do it. They don't even have to listen. But if you keep saying it, eventually it will seep in. Maybe not now—maybe when they are twenty. But they will hear your voice.

    Isn't that what a parent is, anyway, ultimately: a voice inside of a child?

    Think of our religion—how we say the same things over and over: the weekly Torah readings, the prayers. The hope is that those words one day will enter us, define us, change us—slowly.

    G‑d, after all, created the world with words. And He didn't have to yell to create.

    G-d didn't have to yell to createThis gentle method takes a lot of pressure off of the parent. She doesn't have to get her way. She just has to define her way, describe her way, articulate her way, know her way; and just by uttering her way, she plants a seed within the child that can lead to movement.

    We usually think of movement as quick: quick obedience, rapid listening. But children aren't built for rapid response to their parents. How often it is that they don't respond, at least not the way you want them to.

    I remember when my kids were little I would ask them to stop screaming. I would ask them again. I would tell them. And then I would scream at them stop screaming. I would lose it. I was Crazy Mom.

    But as we moms grow up, we also learn. There is no need to force things. I learned this lesson in a very painful way. My son was murdered when he was thirteen. Before he was killed, I used to force the matter at hand with my children. I wanted them to do what I wanted them to do. Now. Not later. Not tomorrow.

    But losing a child makes you revaluate your priorities. Makes you reevaluate everything. You don't expect things to go your way. You don't expect. You know that you can do your best and the worst can happen. All you can do is try.

    So now when I hear parents yelling at their kids I am a little bit shocked. I used to get into crazy power struggles with my kids. I wanted them to clean their rooms and do their homework and brush their teeth and sit at the table and go to sleep at a proper hour and I wanted them to obey me.

    The control I thought I had was falseAfter my son's murder, it was so clear that the control I thought I had was false. I had no power. Now I was happy because they were alive. I truly appreciated them. I wanted to be with them, just to be with them. I didn't need them to listen to me.

    It's amazing that the power struggles stopped. Now for me to get into a power struggle with a child is rare, very rare. Yes I occasionally lose it, but I don't have to be right and I don't have to force my will. I can be like water, dripping on a rock.

    The great Sage and scholar Rabbi Akiva, a man who first studied the Torah when he was forty and had no confidence that he would be able to learn it, noticed the way that water had hollowed a cavity in a rock. He said something to the effect that if gentle water could hollow a rock, then the words of Torah (which are compared to water) could also penetrate him.

    Our words are water and sometimes our children are rocks. But rocks can be sculpted. Especially if you are willing to wait.




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