Understanding Others is the Key to Anger
Frequently when we get angry with someone, we fail to realize that he sees the situation much differently than we do. Since he is acting in a manner he considers proper, we should not condemn him and become angry.
Always ask yourself, "How does this person perceive the situation?" You might still strongly disagree with him, but understanding his point of view will help calm you down.
The greater your understanding of someone else's perception of reality, the greater your ability to communicate with him effectively.
Love Yehuda Lave
Here is a little slide show of my trip today to the hills of Hebron--the Gush Etzion
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MbTwl1AeUUs
Frequently when we get angry with someone, we fail to realize that he sees the situation much differently than we do. Since he is acting in a manner he considers proper, we should not condemn him and become angry.
Always ask yourself, "How does this person perceive the situation?" You might still strongly disagree with him, but understanding his point of view will help calm you down.
The greater your understanding of someone else's perception of reality, the greater your ability to communicate with him effectively.
Love Yehuda Lave
Here is a little slide show of my trip today to the hills of Hebron--the Gush Etzion
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MbTwl1AeUUs
Subject: ISRAEL - overlooked facts
Netanyahu at his best even those who aren't particularly sympathetic to
Israel's Benjamin Netanyahu, could get a good measure of satisfaction from
this interview with British Television during the retaliation against
Hamas' shelling of Israel.
The interviewer asked him: "How come so many more Palestinians have been
killed in this conflict than Israelis?" (A nasty question if there ever
was one!)
Netanyahu: "Are you sure that you want to start asking in that
direction?"
Interviewer: (Falling into the trap) Why not?
Netanyahu: "Because in World War II more Germans were killed than British
and Americans combined, but there is no doubt in anyone's mind that the
war was caused by Germany 's aggression. And in response to the German
blitz on London, the British wiped out the entire city of Dresden, burning
to death more German civilians than the number of people killed in
Hiroshima ... Moreover, I could remind you that in 1944, when the R.A.F.
tried to bomb the Gestapo Headquarters in Copenhagen, some of the bombs
missed their target and fell on a Danish children's hospital, killing 83
little children. Perhaps you have another question?"
Apparently, Benjamin Netanyahu gave another interview and was asked about
Israel 's occupation of Arab lands. His response was, "It's our land". The
reporter (CNN or the like) was stunned - read below "It's our land..."
It's important information since we don't get fair and accurate reporting
from the media and facts tend to get lost in the jumble of daily events.
"CRASH COURSE ON THE ARAB-ISRAELI CONFLICT."
Here are overlooked facts in the current & past Middle East situation.
These were compiled by a Christian university professor:
BRIEF FACTS ON THE ISRAELI CONFLICT TODAY... (It takes just 1.5 minutes
to read!)
It makes sense and it's not slanted. Jew and non-Jew -- it doesn't matter.
1. Nationhood and Jerusalem: Israel became a nation in 1312 BC, two
thousand (2000) years before the rise of Islam.
2. Arab refugees in Israel began identifying themselves as part of a
Palestinian people in 1967, two decades after the establishment of the
modern State of Israel.
3. Since the Jewish conquest in 1272 BC, the Jews have had dominion over
the land for one thousand (1000) years with a continuous presence in the
land for the past 3,300 years.
4. The only Arab dominion since the conquest in 635 lasted no more than 22
years.
5. For over 3,300 years, Jerusalem has been the Jewish capital.
Jerusalem has never been the capital of any Arab or Muslim entity. Even
when the Jordanians occupied Jerusalem, they never sought to make it
their capital, and Arab leaders did not come to visit.
6 Jerusalem is mentioned over 700 times in Tanach, the Jewish Holy
Scriptures. Jerusalem is not mentioned even once in the Koran.
7. King David founded the city of Jerusalem. Mohammed never came to
Jerusalem.
8. Jews pray facing Jerusalem. Muslims pray with their backs toward
Jerusalem .
9. Arab and Jewish Refugees: in 1948 the Arab refugees were encouraged to
leave Israel by Arab leaders promising to purge the land of Jews.
Sixty-eight percent left (many in fear of retaliation by their own
brethren, the Arabs), without ever seeing an Israeli soldier. The ones who
stayed were afforded the same peace, civility, and citizenship rights as
everyone else.
10. The Jewish refugees were forced to flee from Arab lands due to Arab
brutality, persecution and pogroms.
11. The number of Arab refugees who left Israel in 1948 is estimated to
be around 630,000. The number of Jewish refugees from Arab lands is
estimated to be the same.
12. Arab refugees were INTENTIONALLY not absorbed or integrated into the
Arab lands to which they fled, despite the vast Arab territory. Out of the
100,000,000 refugees since World War II, theirs is the only refugee group
in the world that has never been absorbed or integrated into their own
people's lands. Jewish refugees were completely absorbed into Israel, a
country no larger than the state of New Jersey .
13. The Arab-Israeli Conflict: the Arabs are represented by eight separate
nations, not including the Palestinians. There is only one Jewish nation.
The Arab nations initiated all five wars and lost. Israel defended itself
each time and won.
14. The PLO's Charter still calls for the destruction of the State of
Israel. Israel has given the Palestinians most of the West Bank land,
autonomy under the
Palestinian Authority, and has supplied them.
15. Under Jordanian rule, Jewish holy sites were desecrated and the Jews
were denied access to places of worship. Under Israeli rule, all Muslim and
Christian sites have been preserved and made accessible to people of all
faiths.
16. The UN Record on Israel and the Arabs: of the 175 Security Council
resolutions passed before 1990, 97 were directed against Israel.
17. Of the 690 General Assembly resolutions voted on before 1990, 429 were
directed against Israel .
18. The UN was silent while 58 Jerusalem synagogues were destroyed by the
Jordanians.
19. The UN was silent while the Jordanians systematically desecrated the
ancient Jewish cemetery on the Mount of Olives .
20. The UN was silent while the Jordanians enforced an apartheid-like
policy of preventing Jews from visiting the Temple Mount and the Western
Wall.
These are incredible times. We have to ask what our role should be. What
will we tell our grandchildren about what we did when there was a turning
point in Jewish destiny, an opportunity to make a difference?
START NOW - Send this to 18 other people you know and ask them to send it
to eighteen others, Jew and non-Jew - it doesn't really matter.
Netanyahu at his best even those who aren't particularly sympathetic to
Israel's Benjamin Netanyahu, could get a good measure of satisfaction from
this interview with British Television during the retaliation against
Hamas' shelling of Israel.
The interviewer asked him: "How come so many more Palestinians have been
killed in this conflict than Israelis?" (A nasty question if there ever
was one!)
Netanyahu: "Are you sure that you want to start asking in that
direction?"
Interviewer: (Falling into the trap) Why not?
Netanyahu: "Because in World War II more Germans were killed than British
and Americans combined, but there is no doubt in anyone's mind that the
war was caused by Germany 's aggression. And in response to the German
blitz on London, the British wiped out the entire city of Dresden, burning
to death more German civilians than the number of people killed in
Hiroshima ... Moreover, I could remind you that in 1944, when the R.A.F.
tried to bomb the Gestapo Headquarters in Copenhagen, some of the bombs
missed their target and fell on a Danish children's hospital, killing 83
little children. Perhaps you have another question?"
Apparently, Benjamin Netanyahu gave another interview and was asked about
Israel 's occupation of Arab lands. His response was, "It's our land". The
reporter (CNN or the like) was stunned - read below "It's our land..."
It's important information since we don't get fair and accurate reporting
from the media and facts tend to get lost in the jumble of daily events.
"CRASH COURSE ON THE ARAB-ISRAELI CONFLICT."
Here are overlooked facts in the current & past Middle East situation.
These were compiled by a Christian university professor:
BRIEF FACTS ON THE ISRAELI CONFLICT TODAY... (It takes just 1.5 minutes
to read!)
It makes sense and it's not slanted. Jew and non-Jew -- it doesn't matter.
1. Nationhood and Jerusalem: Israel became a nation in 1312 BC, two
thousand (2000) years before the rise of Islam.
2. Arab refugees in Israel began identifying themselves as part of a
Palestinian people in 1967, two decades after the establishment of the
modern State of Israel.
3. Since the Jewish conquest in 1272 BC, the Jews have had dominion over
the land for one thousand (1000) years with a continuous presence in the
land for the past 3,300 years.
4. The only Arab dominion since the conquest in 635 lasted no more than 22
years.
5. For over 3,300 years, Jerusalem has been the Jewish capital.
Jerusalem has never been the capital of any Arab or Muslim entity. Even
when the Jordanians occupied Jerusalem, they never sought to make it
their capital, and Arab leaders did not come to visit.
6 Jerusalem is mentioned over 700 times in Tanach, the Jewish Holy
Scriptures. Jerusalem is not mentioned even once in the Koran.
7. King David founded the city of Jerusalem. Mohammed never came to
Jerusalem.
8. Jews pray facing Jerusalem. Muslims pray with their backs toward
Jerusalem .
9. Arab and Jewish Refugees: in 1948 the Arab refugees were encouraged to
leave Israel by Arab leaders promising to purge the land of Jews.
Sixty-eight percent left (many in fear of retaliation by their own
brethren, the Arabs), without ever seeing an Israeli soldier. The ones who
stayed were afforded the same peace, civility, and citizenship rights as
everyone else.
10. The Jewish refugees were forced to flee from Arab lands due to Arab
brutality, persecution and pogroms.
11. The number of Arab refugees who left Israel in 1948 is estimated to
be around 630,000. The number of Jewish refugees from Arab lands is
estimated to be the same.
12. Arab refugees were INTENTIONALLY not absorbed or integrated into the
Arab lands to which they fled, despite the vast Arab territory. Out of the
100,000,000 refugees since World War II, theirs is the only refugee group
in the world that has never been absorbed or integrated into their own
people's lands. Jewish refugees were completely absorbed into Israel, a
country no larger than the state of New Jersey .
13. The Arab-Israeli Conflict: the Arabs are represented by eight separate
nations, not including the Palestinians. There is only one Jewish nation.
The Arab nations initiated all five wars and lost. Israel defended itself
each time and won.
14. The PLO's Charter still calls for the destruction of the State of
Israel. Israel has given the Palestinians most of the West Bank land,
autonomy under the
Palestinian Authority, and has supplied them.
15. Under Jordanian rule, Jewish holy sites were desecrated and the Jews
were denied access to places of worship. Under Israeli rule, all Muslim and
Christian sites have been preserved and made accessible to people of all
faiths.
16. The UN Record on Israel and the Arabs: of the 175 Security Council
resolutions passed before 1990, 97 were directed against Israel.
17. Of the 690 General Assembly resolutions voted on before 1990, 429 were
directed against Israel .
18. The UN was silent while 58 Jerusalem synagogues were destroyed by the
Jordanians.
19. The UN was silent while the Jordanians systematically desecrated the
ancient Jewish cemetery on the Mount of Olives .
20. The UN was silent while the Jordanians enforced an apartheid-like
policy of preventing Jews from visiting the Temple Mount and the Western
Wall.
These are incredible times. We have to ask what our role should be. What
will we tell our grandchildren about what we did when there was a turning
point in Jewish destiny, an opportunity to make a difference?
START NOW - Send this to 18 other people you know and ask them to send it
to eighteen others, Jew and non-Jew - it doesn't really matter.
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